-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:08 am on Sep. 6, 2008 If you ever tell a girl to call you sometime, and they rarely do, is it because: A) They're interested and they want to make sure you're interested enough that you'd call them and not the other way around OR B) They're not interested I just feel like I can't approach this from a guy's perspective. I feel like attractive girls get a lot of attention from guys, and they just want to make sure that the guy is willing to put some effort. -- Posted by Skeeter Hearts at 10:08 am on Sep. 6, 2008 I call guys all the time. -- Posted by HXC at 10:08 am on Sep. 6, 2008 Girls call me all the time. -- Posted by Amay at 10:09 am on Sep. 6, 2008 I call my bf. Just somedays he calls me more than I call him or I call him more than he calls me, or, once in a blue moon I'll be the one for a day calling or he'll be the one for a day calling me. -- Posted by babybluebitch at 10:09 am on Sep. 6, 2008 I CALL MY BF all the time -- Posted by jamiee at 10:10 am on Sep. 6, 2008 welll i think that they are just waiting for your call. idk sometimes i feel weird calling the guy first, i feel almost annoying and as if it is them who should be calling me the first time at least -- Posted by suhgerr at 10:10 am on Sep. 6, 2008 i call my boys all the time -- Posted by freakyredhead at 10:12 am on Sep. 6, 2008 i don't call guys first very often because it just feels weird -- Posted by Natsy at 10:20 am on Sep. 6, 2008 usually A -- Posted by omfgitsdavegrohl at 10:21 am on Sep. 6, 2008 Yeah. A. If it's an attractive girl that is shy, or not very self-assured, she doesn't want to be pushy or annoying, and she wants to make sure you care enough to call her. It makes her feel good. -- Posted by ConfuzledAngel at 10:23 am on Sep. 6, 2008 They dont want 2 lose credit -- Posted by Lillylove at 12:56 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 I don't hesitate to call boys whether they asked me to call them or not. If I think he is nice and attractive and I can fantasize him naked, I call. If he's cool to my call, nothing was lost. If he takes me up on it, it usually leads to much pleasure, maybe not a relationship, but a lot of social and sexual pleasure. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 2:33 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 Oh, yeah, I'll call. When I say I'll call, I will. If I don't , it's because something came up. Usually, 9 times out of ten, I text with a reason. But I don't want someone calling me, unless I know them, they're a friend, or they're a lover, or a study buddy. If it's some stranger, that just wants sex, they'll get hung up on me. -- Posted by shark916 at 7:19 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 what the fuck are you talking ? -- Posted by cha chi at 9:29 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 If a guy tells me to call him, i will. If he's not interested then he should not tell a girl to call him and vice versa. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 5:32 am on Sep. 8, 2008 what the fuck are you talking Directed at...? -- Posted by jamescoleman at 4:01 am on Sep. 9, 2008 I'll call a girl if she asks me to call but like once every two months I'll go around and call the girls on my phone list. I rarely get phone calls from girls because I'm not like call me and stuff like that. I figure if they don't want to talk to me or communicate with me then they might not think that I'm that important to them *not always true*.