-- Posted by collegegirl2012 at 10:40 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 Ok, well, I just started college at Arkansas State and me and my boyfriend have been together a year. While im in college, he still has the rest of this year. I think thats my first problem. Well, We live so far apart right now. Im in Arkansas and he's in Texas. While its worked for a year, I feel like its going down the drain all the sudden. I really care for him, but lately, he seems like hes ready to move on, but of course when I ask him about it, he just tells me, dont say that I love you and and only you and want to be with you I wanna believe him and trust him on that but i just cant. I dont know what to do about it, I dont know if I should stay with him, or end it. And if Im supposed to end it..what do I say? -- Posted by collegegirl2012 at 10:42 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 When I said the rest of this year, Hes a senior and graduates next year. -- Posted by princess timz at 10:45 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 I don't think you should end it just because you're states apart...long-distance relationships are sweet... -- Posted by collegegirl2012 at 10:46 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 I know and I love him very much. I just dont know how to tell what hes really feeling. -- Posted by tonka at 10:49 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 my friend totally went through this with her girlfriend, only theyre the same age. but they live states apart, and shes had nothign but trouble with the girl. it makes me sad because my friend really loves her, but the other girl doesnt reciprocate the feelings so she just fucks around with my friends heart. anyways, if you cant trust him, leave him. -- Posted by chikichicky at 11:13 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 I think what you need is reassurance from time to time. It's difficult because of the whole long distance thing. How often do you two see each other? The best way to approach is probably spending quality bonding when you guys are physically together. If you want to know more about how he feels, tell him that it's important for you to be reassured about his feelings for you every now and again. You could start by telling him that you appreciate it when he expresses how much he loves and cares about you. It makes you feel very happy etc... If both of you have such strong feelings for each other, then just have a little faith in your relationship rather than throwing it all away. You should work on strengthening that relationship together with him. -- Posted by steven7 at 11:16 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 long distance blows, anyone who thinks they're sweet is a retard -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 5:31 am on Sep. 8, 2008 Love knows no boundaries nor distances, babe. -- Posted by collegegirl2012 at 8:17 am on Sep. 8, 2008 Thanks guys. That really helps.