-- Posted by tiffx3 at 4:46 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 So there was this boy and we were getting really close and he was flirting with me and everything. Until his friends started to be like "ooh yeah get it" and all that gay stuff , it was embarrassing and ridiculous. He is younger than me also. So one night i was over at his friends house and his friend called him and was like "guess who is here and he was like dont you want her" and the boy i like (sam) was like "oh no i think ill pass" and i was shocked i was so mad because i knew he liked me he would always flirt with me and it pissed me off because i think he was just saying he didnt like me because he wanted to seem like the cool kid who has an older girl chasing after him. Well thats what i think. I havent really talked to him since im really mad and confused as to whats going on , what should i do? -- Posted by neverjeeps at 4:47 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 nothing, he still likes you just keep doin what you were doin -- Posted by dragonking at 4:49 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 If he likes you he didn't want to show it to his friends.  I think you should talk to him and ask about that. -- Posted by LEONIDOS at 4:50 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 i dont think hes worth bothering with -- Posted by Define Your Line at 4:54 pm on Sep. 8, 2008 Hey there, I know this must be a really difficult situation for you to deal with right now and I'm sorry you had to experience something like this.  I know that you don't feel very good about what happened but just remember that things will always get better. I don't know how old you are but most males are really immature during their teenage years.  I know it's really hard to handle sometimes because their immaturity can hurt you a lot.  However, it's something that you need to get used to or find a guy who appears to be *more mature for his age.* Why do you think that so many teenage girls are attracted to older men?  It's because of the immaturity present in the males their own age.  As you know, females mature quicker than males do therefore leaving many females feeling attracted to older men. I am that way.  I am easily attracted to an older guy as opposed to a guy my own age.  That's because I would consider myself to be a little bit more mature for my age and therefore, don't really want a boyfriend who is immature and childish. I really wouldn't take this personal.  Many teenage guys don't even realise that they're hurting someone else's feelings by doing things like this.  I mean, he probably thought it was funny - a joke.  He didn't even think about how *you* would feel about what he said.  I really wouldn't take it personal as all boys are immature at this age. I hope I helped.  If you ever need anything at all or feel the need to discuss this further, feel free to message me any time as my inbox is always open. - Sabrina