-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:50 am on Sep. 9, 2008 i was so excited and social in the very beginning of freshman year of college and it was going well. i would get exhausted at times and feel like i've messed up and then get insecure. i know it's still early in the year & a lot of kids are making friends, but for some reason, my head isnt motivated to put the effort into socializing. it goes well when i try, but it feels so much harder for me than for other people to be social. ahhh please give advice!! -- Posted by ang42490424 at 7:03 am on Sep. 9, 2008 I have the same problem. I just wait for others to say hi. I got several of them yesterday. -- Posted by xicheeto at 7:12 am on Sep. 9, 2008 idk you may just be going through something. i was like that for a while but now i'm a social butterfly. :) eventually you'll want to talk to people. and when you don't its not a bad thing, you're just not in the mood.