-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:41 pm on Sep. 17, 2008 so i will put it here as its been making me depressed i suppose. it was so hard but i spoke face to face with my mentor today about everything with my brother! and it was the hardest thing i have ever done. i bit my thumb so hard it bled. i felt physicly sick before i went. she told me i did so well speaking to her , she said the hardest part is over. She has refered me to an NSPCC counsellor. what i want to know is if i get an NSPCC counsellor . wud mum have to no anything? i don't want mum to know about the abuse that happened all them years ago! i dont want to hurt no body. i feel proud for telling my mentor everything but like she tryed to help me when this lad at a party raped me but it dident work. i think a counsellor would be so much better no offence to my mentor like cuz i think shees mint =] omg i just cant believe how hard this day has been. it didnt help that i had to go to french for the last 15 minutes cuz my mentor had a meeting to go to and so i cryed all the way through and people wouldent leave me alone. all i wanted was space and my BEST FRIEND said to me "do you think it was wise to tell her all this? look what has happened! you are getting a counsellor" SOME FUKIN BEST FRIEND SHE IS! shees been a tit all week! anyway enough ranting. will tell you more later! mums walked in. -- Posted by raindropgirl at 1:46 pm on Sep. 17, 2008 well done so much for telling your mentor thats great. If you go 2 a NSPCC counselor then it is all confidentiall and no-one has to no anything, but if they decide that it is really serious then they might tell your mum but only if they think it is apsolutly necessary. well done again;) :):):):):):):):)