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-- Posted by Aimee at 6:41 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

My roomate has been like hitting on me for the last few days.. Its kinda starting to sketch me out.  It just makes it really awkward in here sometimes. Anyone else have a problem like this?


-- Posted by austin s23 at 6:42 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

i havent. maybe just talk to them about it


-- Posted by LEONIDOS at 6:42 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

just say no


-- Posted by YamiUnme at 6:42 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

No, my roommate is completely straight and my girlfriend wouldn't like the fact of being with another person anyway.
I would suggest just telling your roommate off if it's bothering you so much.


-- Posted by Event Horizon at 6:43 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

How do you mean hitting on you, like outward flirting, or playful fun?

She may be a more open person if its not like outward "damn girl you look fine" kind of flirting [obviously not to that extent ha ha]


-- Posted by Event Horizon at 6:45 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

Quote: from YamiUnme at 9:42 pm on Sep. 17, 2008


No, my roommate is completely straight and my girlfriend wouldn't like the fact of being with another person anyway.
I would suggest just telling your roommate off if it's bothering you so much.

Are you serious? lol
Telling your roommate off for something as trivial as that is f**king stupid. You have to LIVE with this person, and chances are, if you let the person know that you are not interested, she'll likely stop pursuing it, for the same reason that you shouldn't "tell her off"


-- Posted by sarah is hot at 6:47 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

You should tell them that it's not ok to do that. Make it clear for them


-- Posted by Aimee at 6:48 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

Quote: from Event Horizon at 9:43 pm on Sep. 17, 2008


How do you mean hitting on you, like outward flirting, or playful fun?

She may be a more open person if its not like outward "damn girl you look fine" kind of flirting [obviously not to that extent ha ha]


Its not quite that bad though, but she is always giving me compliments about how I look and she seems to be looking at me a lot.


-- Posted by Event Horizon at 6:57 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

That is a tough situation...since it isn't outright, it is hit or miss if whether talking to her about it will create some animosity.

It could be that she is just really open, or complementing, and that she might simply be envious [?].
But then again, homosexuality, and even bisexuality, are not uncommon, so it could be that as well.

I would say, if you are uncomfortable with it, so much that it is creating stress, then talk to her about it.

As for what to say, Sorry, I haven't had this problem --thank God-- so I haven't a clue what to say that would both get the point across and not come off as accusatory, in case she isn't actually hitting on you.

Good luck


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