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-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:04 am on Sep. 18, 2008
I feel kind of left out. On the first day I hung out with some kid I met over facebook and his roommate and we got drunk the first 2 nights and had fun. All of the sudden his roommate is like "aw fuck you brought him?" when i come, so now im just kinda ignoring them. Now im alone and feel kinda alone in this huge campus (i dont know anyone really cool to hang out with).. I'm gonna goto the gym, but I used to be friends with EVERYONE in high school and now in college everyone is finding their own little group, and im not in any of them =(
-- Posted by MiNNiCK at 10:05 am on Sep. 18, 2008
It's only three days after...you won't establish groups that fast. There's a huge campus like you said. Talk to your classmates, at the dining hall, at school events, etc. There are tons of places to meet people and there's no excuse for not finding at least someone to talk to.
-- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 10:06 am on Sep. 18, 2008
awwwwww so sad.
-- Posted by 0h h3ll n0 at 10:06 am on Sep. 18, 2008
aww..well im sure you will make some good friends sooner or later. it has only been 3 days!
-- Posted by Natsy at 10:07 am on Sep. 18, 2008
damn... that was me last week lol xx
-- Posted by DirtyPeanut at 10:07 am on Sep. 18, 2008
You just need to focus more on being a little more confident, maybe going to clubs or maybe taking part in any sports, the gym is a good way to meet people. Dont worry, you're new, so it will take a little time to get used to it :)
-- Posted by my name sucks at 10:11 am on Sep. 18, 2008
i had the same problem, i met this girl and hung out with her and her friend and everything was great. but then they ditched me. but its been 3 weeks now and I've made friends and everythings awesome. i didn't fit in the first couple of weeks but I'm starting to fit in now. just try to hang out with the people you click with rather than the people who just seem cool.
-- Posted by RachLeigh13 at 11:05 am on Sep. 19, 2008
Don't fret... its only the first couple of days at college. You'll find someone to hang out with soon enough. I suggest you start getting involved with clubs on campus. Thats the easiest way to make friends and meet new people. It's hard from going from (And yes, this is so cliched) the big fish in the little pond, to a little fish in the big pond. You'll find your niche and soon enough have plenty of friends.
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