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-- Posted by Majo at 4:11 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

My roommate (lesbian) had a girl over today, someone she has sort of a thing for, and it made me a little uncomfortable which is strange. I don't dislike homosexuals and I'm not grossed out by them, I don't really care. But when she sort of started flirting with her, I felt a little weird. It's hard to explain, really, because, like I said, I have nothing against her being gay and don't think I'd care if she had a girlfriend so I'm thinking that maybe it just felt weird to be in the room (I didn't have anywhere to go and I didn't feel well)...but, then again, I don't think it would have felt weird if she had been flirting with a guy. On the other hand, I don't know that since I've never been in that position before so...

Eh, yeah, sort of just babbling out loud.


-- Posted by Molfsontan at 4:12 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

I would be turned on if I was female, but that might just be the male hormones talking.


-- Posted by musicfan3 at 4:12 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

Yeah I know what you mean. It does get uncomfortable at times. I just don't look.


-- Posted by Aliboo at 4:13 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

Yea it was awkward for me even though im bi


-- Posted by lovergurl96013 at 4:13 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

dude i would prolly feel the same way


-- Posted by BeautifulxLiar at 4:14 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

oh man, im bi and id relish that, tho my mind would go down all the wrong hallways...


-- Posted by killabyte at 4:15 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

maybe u like her in ways u dont realise ?


-- Posted by greatescape at 4:16 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

I think its something you just have to get used to.  You can be totally okay with it, but if it's something new to you it may still be uncomfortable


-- Posted by Majo at 4:18 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

Quote: from killabyte at 7:15 pm on Sep. 18, 2008


maybe u like her in ways u dont realise ?

As a straight male, you'd probably like that, huh?

But sorry, no, I have a boyfriend whom I love very much and will have been with for a year next month. I wasn't that sort of uncomfortable, I felt like I was somewhere I shouldn't be.


-- Posted by showgirl xx at 4:21 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

I don't know if it's because I may be bi-curious (I do have a boyfriend though), but it might've been interesting for me...


-- Posted by hound at 4:21 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

Lol, I've been in similar situations.
Although it was weird, I told myself to ignore it, and focused on other people...
But it looks like you didn't have anyone else to focus on.
:S


-- Posted by killabyte at 4:25 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

Quote: from Majo at 4:18 pm on Sep. 18, 2008


Quote: from killabyte at 7:15 pm on Sep. 18, 2008

maybe u like her in ways u dont realise ?

As a straight male, you'd probably like that, huh?

But sorry, no, I have a boyfriend whom I love very much and will have been with for a year next month. I wasn't that sort of uncomfortable, I felt like I was somewhere I shouldn't be.


yea i prob would like it ... but its a possability keep your options open :)


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