-- Posted by Thatsux nothatsLIFE at 9:02 pm on Sep. 18, 2008 So, me and a close guy friend are in collge together. He stays in the next building over. We were really cool through high school, and kind of had a friends w/ benefit thing going on. It was cool, I'm not one of those get attached type of girls, wutev. we even went to prom together. So, I knew we wouldn't be messing around still because ya know, it's college, new people etc. Plus, I didn't really want to continue it and end up getting actually attached. We talked like usual up until the day everyone moved in. He hasn't texted or talked to me since. He'll talk if we happen to be in our group of friends and act normal towards me, but if we pass, he won't say hi (neither do I because I'm stubborn) It's not like we don't have a chance to interact, we have mutual friends and his roommate is a friend of mine, so I go to their dorm sumtimes. It's just kinda hurtful since we were such good friends. I don't care if he talks to other girls or whatever because we never dated, it was not that serious, but for some reason he's avoiding me. What's his deal?? It's like we're instant enemies for no reason....?   -- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 9:03 pm on Sep. 18, 2008 he wants some fresh puussssaaaayyyy -- Posted by Thatsux nothatsLIFE at 9:05 pm on Sep. 18, 2008 lol apparently I guess. But no need to not be friends anymore! I don't care who he hooks up with, I'm not his mother! we used to be like bros! (except I'm a girl, lol) -- Posted by millyness at 9:13 pm on Sep. 18, 2008 I think he just wanted you for the benefits...I had a 'friend' like that once -- Posted by kazz at 9:13 pm on Sep. 18, 2008 yeah he wants to upgrade now that he's a college man haha -- Posted by ReeprFlame at 5:51 pm on Sep. 19, 2008 That's a frustrating situation, very similar to one I'm going through now infact. Since you are a freshman, I wanna say he's probably overwhelmed with all the new options he has on the table and is exloring them. He may feel he doesnt need you but if you were both good friends to begin with, he'll come around after all the excitement wears off. I don't know what to suggest you do in the meantime, but I wouldn't worry about it as much as you seem to be...just try to be casual about things as much as possible