-- Posted by MadisonIsntAMiracle at 5:10 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 And she asked me for it and I'm not sure I can give it to her or am the right one. She came to me in tears and I asked her what's wrong. She stared at me and lifted her shirt and showed me her palms. Her hands read, No and Stop. And her stomach said, You fat fucking cow. Mind you, she's a tad overweight, but she's beautiful. She sat there and told me how useless and fat she feels. She told me she is scared nobody will ever love her for who she is. And all I could do was sit there and she sobbed into my shoulder. She asked me for help, and I don't know what to do. What can I do to help besides just being there? -- Posted by hooray for rootbeer at 5:11 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 Did she do that herself? -- Posted by The11thHour at 5:11 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 You either listen to friends or you give advice...or you do both. -- Posted by Light Assassin at 5:12 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 she...picked...up....a....sharpie....and....called....herself...a...fat...COW?! OMG CAPS LOCK CRUISE CONTROL that's fucked up -- Posted by hollenda 08 at 5:13 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 well tell her she is beautiful and smile ^^ that's what i would do oh yeah give her a hug -- Posted by fizzle123 at 5:13 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 well thats not a good idea.. selfharming that on you're palms, how's she going to do anything now. But just be there for her. -- Posted by kingduffy at 5:17 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 be there for her, and wenever yu can tell her she looks beatuiful and maybe even just yu and heer go running or somthing and show yu care and want to help her feel good about herself, help her loose the weight or make her feel good in the inside -- Posted by dragonking at 5:31 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 I think you should talk to her about talking to her family to get help and also speaking with a guidance counselor. She can be helped better by them but you can help by supporting her and to be healthier together.  That would be eating healthy and doing cardio together.  Go for help first. -- Posted by W o n d e r l a n d at 5:39 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 possibly start to get together with her after school or something and exersize with her (on the terms she eats) so that she knows that you are there for her and that you want to help her loose weight in a healthy way