-- Posted by HSBC at 10:31 am on Sep. 23, 2008 I met this girl at a bonfire last night and we hung out for an hour exclusively. I got her phone # and I think she's adorable, but she doesn't seem like much of a drinker. I have a couple questions. I got her number yesterday. When is the latest I should call her? Should I set up a date or invite her to a party? If you choose party, how much space should I give her? She doesn't know any of my friends. Thanks to everyone that responds. -- Posted by lilakforte at 10:34 am on Sep. 23, 2008 Hmmm. Try calling her tomorrow, that leaves adequate time enough so that she won't think you're clingy or too keen. Either options would be good. If she doesn't know you well then I'd actually propose you set up a meeting first, not necessarily a date, a kind of date but unofficially so that she feels more at ease to say yes. And then invite her to parties. However if you feel you know her quite well and you have amazing chemistry then invite her straight to the party. -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 10:34 am on Sep. 23, 2008 call her tomorrow at the latest. if u bring her to party don't make her drink if she doesn't want to. stay by her during the party so she doesn't feel alone or like u abandoned her. maybe u guys should just go for a walk to the park and around town for a first date to get to know each other more. -- Posted by snitizzle at 10:49 am on Sep. 23, 2008 call her tomorrow. i wouldnt bring her to a party.maybe take her out to dinner and show her you can be a nice guy and get to know her. once you get to know her then bring her to a party. -- Posted by HSBC at 10:54 am on Sep. 23, 2008 Quote: from snitizzle at 10:49 am on Sep. 23, 2008 once you get to know her then bring her to a party. cute. thanks for the suggestions. -- Posted by johnny12345 at 10:57 am on Sep. 23, 2008 text her