-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:04 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 me and my boyfriend had sex during the summer and i got pregnant but after a couple months went by i had a miscarrige we were up set for a while and now he was talkin about havin another one but i dont wnat the same thing to happen again what should i do -- Posted by Molfsontan at 2:05 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 Don't let him get you pregnant, use birth control. -- Posted by nerevarine692 at 2:05 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 Tell him "No." -- Posted by erida19 at 2:05 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 birth control it's awesome. -- Posted by HuffleHaire at 2:06 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 Do you actually want a baby, and are just scared of a miscarriage? Or do you not want a baby? -- Posted by RebeccaEmOkiss at 2:06 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 Birth control fer sure. -- Posted by Natsy at 2:07 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 a miscarriage is basically a natural abortion; there was probably something wrong with the baby. sorry :/ -- Posted by Ad libitum at 2:07 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 I can understand why you don't want to. It's because you feel as though you'll let him down, right? Well, if that is the way you feel, then you really shouldn't! It's neither of your faults what happened before. So, if you want to start a family, then try, but don't feel ashamed if you can't. All the best. -- Posted by Anonymous at 2:08 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 yes i want a baby with his though -- Posted by Stud Muffin at 2:09 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 Be like "nigga they aint no way u gettin meh big agaiyn." -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 2:13 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 the dr should be able to tell u if u'll have another miscarriage or how to avoid one. -- Posted by Chiefette at 2:50 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 How old are you?  Do you really want a child?  Don't do anything that you don't want to do.  Remember that a child is a life time commitment, and that he may say he wants one now, but he could walk away at anytime.  It is natural to want a child after a miscarriage, but make sure you don't rush into anything.  If you do decide to have a child, make sure that you are financially stable.  Have a place of your own, a vehicle, the support of your family.  You will need prenatal care, and you will need to take prenatal vitamins.  Don't do anything you don't want to do.  Don't have a baby cause you think it will keep him around.  This isn't something you can take back when it's not fun anymore. -- Posted by bifemalelover at 6:53 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 well you could ask him if he wants to get married first, if he says no, you could buy a tiny doll and put it up there feet first, then say hony im having your baby then push it out head first!