-- Posted by spaz92693 at 5:47 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 So my friend, from now on lets call her Lidia, had sex with a boy, lets call Tom. Well Lidia told me she thinks she was pregnant. She took a test and it came out negative, but I've noticed she has been getting bigger and bigger. I told her what I have been noticing, and she says she notices it too. Her grandmother started her on birth control Sunday (which I'm really scared, because I mean what if she is prego!). I told her I would be there for her to help because I know how it feels to have a baby at so young, and Tom really doesn't give a shit! -- Posted by jackcrack at 5:50 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 they wouldn't start her on birth control unless she is not pregnant. They do pregnancy tests before they will prescribe you birth control. How long ago did she have sex with him? and how big is she getting? -- Posted by steven7 at 5:51 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 go to a doc, free clinic or something -- Posted by spaz92693 at 5:52 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 It was a little over a month I think! She was prescribed the birth control before she had sex! She is getting pretty big. And I know what prego women look like, they don't look fat! She doesn't look fat! -- Posted by yesnoyes at 5:53 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 Quote: from jackcrack at 1:50 am on Sep. 24, 2008 they wouldn't start her on birth control unless she is not pregnant. They do pregnancy tests before they will prescribe you birth control. How long ago did she have sex with him? and how big is she getting? they don't do tests, i think the most they did was ask me if i was pregnant.. -- Posted by spaz92693 at 5:54 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 We live in a town of only about 2500 people. There is no such thing as a free clinic within 100 miles! She couldn't go to the regular clinic because everyone in town would know something was up! -- Posted by jackcrack at 5:57 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 if she has gotten pretty big in a month... its not pregnancy... the fetus wouldn't be big enough to really show. -- Posted by spaz92693 at 6:00 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 She's not BIG she's just poofed out a little -- Posted by jackcrack at 6:11 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 has she taken the birth control yet? has she taken another pregnancy test? has she had her period? -- Posted by spaz92693 at 6:11 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 Yes she's on it now! No she has only taken one! I don't think she has had her period yet! -- Posted by jackcrack at 6:13 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 tell her to take another pregnancy test before she takes another pill -- Posted by spaz92693 at 6:15 pm on Sep. 23, 2008 I did. I think she's gonna quit until she knows for sure! -- Posted by swtpie at 1:35 am on Sep. 24, 2008 She needs to leave 'tom'. And if you think she's gotten bigger over a month....then you're thinking to much about it.