-- Posted by PooksPooks at 4:32 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 ok seriously. to all you pervy guys out there, there is a thing called boundaries between you and other girls i am engaged and i was around this guy today who has a girlfriend but for some reason, that doesn't stop him from poking me in the butt what the???? i had to tell him immediately not to do that anymore....so he didn't. but that didn't stop him from getting all up in my face and continuously flirting with me and every other girl in his vicinity....dry-humping one, making pervy comments to me and another.....it's like seriously? serious?! and the other day he came up behind me and slid his hands down my arm while in a silly voice saying "i want your body". ok it was obvious he was only joking but dude! boundaries! when he jokes like this, i usually try to give him signs to stop by jokingly "pun ching" or "kicking" him instead of encouraging his humor......but apparantly it doesn't work when i told my fiance about this guy, he got sooooooooo unbelievably angry lol. and it's not even a compliment when guys like this flirt....you're just another girl. cus they flirt with EVERYONE and it really sucks that he's like this cus when he is not being pervy, he's really cool and we have lots in common......but then he ruins that haha -- Posted by Drinkingjam at 4:34 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 I'm unsure if you knew this, but any violence against a guy other than a kick in the balls is usually considered flirting...within limits ofcourse. -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 4:34 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 ...he IS being a perv...you even said so yourself. -- Posted by fleastar at 4:34 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 but guys no no boundaries -- Posted by sarah is hot at 4:36 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 He is so being a perv. You can have him up for harrassment but make sure he doesn't counter claim against the punches and kicks. -- Posted by ManicD at 4:37 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 I flirt with ALL girls, its called FUN!!!! Does not mean I want to screw everyone of them. Also I tend to stop if they dont reciprocate. So make it clear you dont like it and he will stop. -- Posted by PooksPooks at 4:39 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 Quote: from Drinkingjam at 4:34 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 I'm unsure if you knew this, but any violence against a guy other than a kick in the balls is usually considered flirting...within limits ofcourse. i didn't litterally touch him. i make the gesture of punching him. i make no physical contact it's just i rather do that than play along on his joke, ya know? but oh well......i hope he's not taking me the wrong way..... :-\ -- Posted by PooksPooks at 4:40 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 Quote: from IceTeaEdwin at 4:34 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 ...he IS being a perv...you even said so yourself. i know that......what r u trying to say -- Posted by PooksPooks at 4:40 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 Quote: from sarah is hot at 4:36 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 He is so being a perv. You can have him up for harrassment but make sure he doesn't counter claim against the punches and kicks. i dont make real physical contact. i make gestures of punching and kicking, ya know? -- Posted by PooksPooks at 4:41 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 Quote: from ManicD at 4:37 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 I flirt with ALL girls, its called FUN!!!! Does not mean I want to screw everyone of them. Also I tend to stop if they dont reciprocate. So make it clear you dont like it and he will stop.   i did make it clear.....he doesn't care though lol -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 4:41 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 Quote: from PooksPooks at 6:40 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 Quote: from IceTeaEdwin at 4:34 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 ...he IS being a perv...you even said so yourself. i know that......what r u trying to say My bad, I miss read ^-^ Nvm then...just tell him to stop because it makes you feel weird. -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 4:45 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 ew what a freak. -- Posted by sarah is hot at 4:45 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 Quote: from PooksPooks at 11:40 am on Sep. 25, 2008 Quote: from sarah is hot at 4:36 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 He is so being a perv. You can have him up for harrassment but make sure he doesn't counter claim against the punches and kicks. i dont make real physical contact. i make gestures of punching and kicking, ya know? Sorry I didn't read it properly. Go ahead and get him in trouble with the law then. He deservesd it by the sound of things -- Posted by Chino at 9:08 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 Quote: from sarah is hot at 4:36 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 He is so being a perv. You can have him up for harrassment but make sure he doesn't counter claim against the punches and kicks. He can't counter claim.  Whenever its girl vs guy, the law favors women automatically and even more considering this is something related to sexual harrassment.   This guy is in trouble.  Shouldn't be disrespecting you like that. -- Posted by jennay at 7:26 am on Sep. 25, 2008 you sound like a boring prude -- Posted by nik1 at 1:56 pm on Sep. 29, 2008 He definitely crossed the boundary in my opinion. My gf is extraordinarily gorgeous.  In fact probably the smartest and best looking girl on a campus of 12,000. Of course I am prejudice.  Several weeks ago we were meeting in the cafeteria for lunch and she was walking to a table.  I was still in line and noticed a guy approached her and was talking to her.  He stood beside her and put his hand on her butt.  She knocked his hand away and told him to back off.  He then reached out again to touch her and she kicked him in the balls and when he went down she kneed him in the face.  Security came and took him out.  He hasn't been seen since and according to some friends he was dismissed from school. Don't allow anyone to disrespect you. -- Posted by tell me again at 10:45 pm on Sep. 29, 2008 "Jokingly" saying no just means yes.