-- Posted by sicosys at 9:24 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 The more I think I hate myself, I'm too shy, I get taken advantage of too easily, I find the perfect girl just before she has to move, I am scared to trust people, I always word thing horribly, I'm always in the wrong situation at the wrong time, and the list continues... Any advice on how to reverse a few of these things? -- Posted by brunette 17 at 9:25 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 put yourself first...get tougher. idk lol -- Posted by Candy Man at 9:26 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 WE B THA SAM3 MUH FUKAAA -- Posted by Candy Man at 9:27 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 Quote: from Candy Man at 9:26 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 WE B THA SAM3 MUH FUKAAA Except the shy part, I am NOT shy lol. -- Posted by badgalexy at 9:28 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 dont reverse any them...they make you who are and every thing happens for a reason -- Posted by duesxmachina at 9:28 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 wow same here. its a lonely lonely world and the only way we feel better is by voicing it. everything can be reversed its a matter of moving the spotlight away from yourself so you can catch your breath. -- Posted by stl man at 9:28 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 u gotta grow some balls -- Posted by Johvanni at 9:29 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 Look you have no confidence in yourself..And about being at the wrong places at the wrong time...Well cant help you there buddy unless you say goodbye to old friends if that is the cause....Ummm I would get involved with some therapy and see what the problem really is..Honestly let them probe your brain to see whats really going on...Maybe something happened that was really bad and it shocked you...You are the only one that should know... -- Posted by Wolfmanjack at 9:29 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 Honestly, I don't know man. Life just happens like that. Counseling might help with the trust issues. As to the women issues, do what I am doing and just take a break from pursuing women. -- Posted by 911teen org at 9:29 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 if ur such a kind person find a passion and get involved with something, then u wont hate ur self, let love find u dont be hard hell bent on it and the perfect girl will fall in ur arms! sit down and look at ur life where its going and wat mistakes ur doing, if u see urself from someone elses POV then maybe u can figure out why u maek mistakes and fuck up.... dont feel bad i word things wrong too and its pissed ppl off before but if its a BIG problem tell ppl ahead of time esp. close ppl and they wont be so fast to judge next time!! have a great day hope this helps -- Posted by whips handcuffs at 9:29 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 get up every morning and name something you like about yourself. make a list of people who care about you. make a goal everyday to meet one new person and have a real conversation with them. set goals. learn a new language. try something new. pm me if you want :) -- Posted by DayXTripper at 9:30 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 I like myself, but I have a growing hatred for socializing and the thoughtless cruelty of attraction. -- Posted by 911teen org at 9:32 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 Quote: from Johvanni at 9:29 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 Look you have no confidence in yourself..And about being at the wrong places at the wrong time...Well cant help you there buddy unless you say goodbye to old friends if that is the cause....Ummm I would get involved with some therapy and see what the problem really is..Honestly let them probe your brain to see whats really going on...Maybe something happened that was really bad and it shocked you...You are the only one that should know... i have some agreement here with johvanni   -- Posted by k thomas at 9:35 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 you should read and watch The Secret. -- Posted by duesxmachina at 9:37 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 Quote: from 911teen org at 9:29 pm on Sep. 28, 2008 if ur such a kind person find a passion and get involved with something, then u wont hate ur self, let love find u dont be hard hell bent on it and the perfect girl will fall in ur arms! sit down and look at ur life where its going and wat mistakes ur doing, if u see urself from someone elses POV then maybe u can figure out why u maek mistakes and fuck up....   dont feel bad i word things wrong too and its pissed ppl off before but if its a BIG problem tell ppl ahead of time esp. close ppl and they wont be so fast to judge next time!! have a great day hope this helps that makes the most sense. hang out with people who look at life differently, i guess.