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-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 11:32 am on Sep. 29, 2008

More so, 'Ya know what I can't understand?'.

Why on earth an ex boyfriend would hightail it, when he sees his ex girlfriend.

And I don't mean just walking away. I mean running. Pretty much tail tucked between his legs.

I get that we're exes. That's cool with me. It was a mutual breakup. But...running away from an ex? Avoiding her like the Plague? Taking alternate routes to avoid her? Seeing her, with her friends, and taking a longer walk to your classes?

What is up with that?

Is it really that hard to pass by  me, nod as a means of 'hello', and move on with your life?


-- Posted by Aerie at 11:33 am on Sep. 29, 2008

He might actually still want you and is upset. So he just avoids you.


-- Posted by YourBlueEyes212 at 11:34 am on Sep. 29, 2008

Immaturity.


-- Posted by switchfoot52 at 11:34 am on Sep. 29, 2008

he doesn't want to talk to u. he probably thinks u'll start talking to him when u see him.


-- Posted by Lihiro at 11:34 am on Sep. 29, 2008

I can't even hear my ex's name mentioned.


-- Posted by quittinglamejob at 11:36 am on Sep. 29, 2008

similarly, why is it my ex has to roll her eyes at me when I walk by her, huh?

Can't we be civil?


-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 11:36 am on Sep. 29, 2008

I'm an avid and firm believer that you should, and can, remain friends with all your exes, as that's how it starts: With friendship. I'm friends with all of my exes, save but two, and it's ridiculous how this one is acting.

So what if he sees me and has to say 'hello'? Does it hurt him to open his mouth, or something?

He doesn't even have to talk. He can just simply glide by. But ignoring me, outright, is childish, and immature.


-- Posted by AmyDawg at 11:36 am on Sep. 29, 2008

Omg..I know what u mean ! ..I've been there! I cant say anything myself..Because i dont know whats with those boys !


-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 11:41 am on Sep. 29, 2008

I'm in college.

I expect maturity. I expect respect.

I don't expect to have to be the Bitch in the situation to get him to take the hint that I don't want him to be the child. I want him to be adult about this. Saying 'hi' to me, running into me, seeing me, is not going to hurt him, nor his life. If anything, it'll provide closure, which is obviously needed.


-- Posted by bopass at 11:42 am on Sep. 29, 2008

w/e


-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 11:43 am on Sep. 29, 2008


w/e

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