-- Posted by disco pig at 1:14 pm on Sep. 29, 2008 what the hell I've made a few friends but altogether it seems a little bit harder than I expected. It's like I'm not really connecting with that many people out of the ones I do meet and it seems like any of the guys I would have any interest in are not courting me or w/e uggh I'm pretty friendly and not completely horrible looking so wtf is the problem I mean are guys in general just not very forward? Very few have come up to me and started a conversation even after I flash a smile... to the girls: how often do you get hit on? Maybe I'm just trying to rush things. I want more of a social life right now to distract me from other shit but it's not working out to the degree I'd like it to -- Posted by Relativity at 1:16 pm on Sep. 29, 2008 Stop worrying and expecting people to come to YOU. Get your ass out there and socialize. -- Posted by jenjenpoo at 1:17 pm on Sep. 29, 2008 in college i think ppl are less desperate, so dont expect to be hit on all the time and it only happens mostly at parties at least thats my exp so far, im a freshman lol -- Posted by marine chic at 1:22 pm on Sep. 29, 2008 I know what you mean, I've met some really cool people that I like hanging out with, but I haven't really connected with anyone.  Maybe it just takes a while to find those people.