-- Posted by Thedevilsownangel at 4:27 am on Sep. 30, 2008 my best mates mum passed away yesterday i dont know what to say or do she is just so cut up about it........ she was like another mum to me... help? -- Posted by carizzleyanizzle at 4:29 am on Sep. 30, 2008 There's not really a lot you can say in this situation. My cousin lost her mom a few months ago and, trust me, not much can make them feel better. Just remind your friend you're there for her, and that she'll see her mom again someday. :] Hope things get better. -- Posted by W o n d e r l a n d at 4:29 am on Sep. 30, 2008 just be there for them to hug or talk to -- Posted by mendingheart518 at 5:13 am on Sep. 30, 2008 the best thing you can do is to be there for them. I lost my godmother last year in a car accident along with a friend of mine. it was so hard to face her blood family which i consider my brothers and sister. it was very hard and i knew how it felt cuz i lost my dad when i was 12. The best thing to do, is just be there for them and let them know you are there for them no matter what. -- Posted by Duke at 5:20 am on Sep. 30, 2008 Well, if she was like a mom to you too, then you should understand how she hurts and address yourself to that. -- Posted by ktownchick84 at 6:34 am on Sep. 30, 2008 just be there for your friend and say whats in your heart and just be a good listener when they need to talk