-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:46 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 but I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant. I'm only 16 and my boyfriend of a year and a half is 17. We're young, but I know we can do it. We're getting an apartment in two months. Any advice on life or just anything? To be honest, I'm scared shitless. =/ -- Posted by Lally at 5:47 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 yay, the first honest person on livewire Congratz. Anyway: yeah, be more careful. Why didnt you use a condom? Some people are shitless if you ask me... -- Posted by Jerseyy at 5:47 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 message me..ill help you out. i actaully have first hand experience in this ... =) -- Posted by lonewolf03 at 5:48 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Honey, I am going to be totally honest to you. This might sound harsh. But living in an apartment at 16 and 17 is hard. Do you both have jobs? And if you're pregnant, it will be very, very. VERY much more expensive. My best advice is to talk to your parents and plan things out with them. -- Posted by Chiefette at 5:48 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Have you missed a period?  Have you thought about going to a doctor?  Have you taken a pregnancy test?   My advice, don't move out at 16 because you are pregnant.  You are going to need your parents help if you choose to keep the child.  Don't drop out of school, and consider adoption. -- Posted by emmywashere3849 at 5:49 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 adoption? abortion? being more careful next time? -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:55 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Quote: from lonewolf03 at 7:48 am on Oct. 1, 2008 Honey, I am going to be totally honest to you. This might sound harsh. But living in an apartment at 16 and 17 is hard. Do you both have jobs? And if you're pregnant, it will be very, very. VERY much more expensive. My best advice is to talk to your parents and plan things out with them.   Iff my parents know I'll get kicked out again. I've already lived on my own, I know how it is. Yes, we both have steady income. -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:58 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Mistakes are made, that's in the past. Don't bring it up about being more careful. I'm already a drop out, I do internet school from my home. If my parents know I'm pregnant I'm kicked out again. We've stopped having sex because of this pregnancy scare, we're going to wait now until our wedding night. -- Posted by Chiefette at 6:09 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 As good as it sounds now, chances are you aren't going to wait until your wedding night.  He's had it once, chances are he isn't going to let it go easily. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:11 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Quote: from Glory at 8:09 am on Oct. 1, 2008 As good as it sounds now, chances are you aren't going to wait until your wedding night. He's had it once, chances are he isn't going to let it go easily. It was his idea in the first place not to do it anymore. :] -- Posted by Chiefette at 6:13 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Doesn't mean he will stick with it. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:15 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Quote: from Glory at 8:13 am on Oct. 1, 2008 Doesn't mean he will stick with it. This has nothing to do with anything that I'm concerned with at the moment. -- Posted by Chiefette at 6:16 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 It has to do with preventing the same mistake from happening again. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:18 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Quote: from Glory at 8:16 am on Oct. 1, 2008 It has to do with preventing the same mistake from happening again. You think after this I'd let this happen again? I have big plans. I refuse to drop out of college because of stupid mistakes. My life is finally going somewhere, and this is enough to make me realize I fucked up. I'm not going to let it happen again. -- Posted by audrey820 at 9:39 am on Oct. 1, 2008 Are you going to have the baby? -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:26 am on Oct. 2, 2008 Quote: from audrey820 at 11:39 pm on Oct. 1, 2008 Are you going to have the baby? Of course. I'm going to have the baby and keep it. I don't believe in abortion or putting a baby up for adoption. I couldn't live with myself.