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-- Posted by XxshadowdancerxX at 10:17 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

Ok. I have a friend that I have come to the conclusion is using me for my cell phone. It started slowly and then just got down right ridiculous. I am injured currently and my patiance and generousity are wearing very thin, but she has crossed the line. I I only had 2 rules in regards to her using my phone. 1: don't give out my number without asking, and 2: DO NOT LET OTHERS USE MY PHONE!!! Today not only had my number been given out to ppl that are now harrassing me, but she got it confiscated by a staff member and had to get it back. Thing is she wasn't even trying to get it back until i came looking for it. then she panniced and tried to get me to stay in one place while she went to get it back. She wasn't even going to tell me what had happened.
 Now what do I do in the morning when she wants to borrow it, how do I let her know how much trouble she's in?


-- Posted by CarolineLouise at 10:19 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

Tell her that she can't use it
just that simple


-- Posted by alastrxxna at 10:20 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

Tell her to stop taking advantage of you, I had a friend like this, using me for my iPod, Just say No. :)


-- Posted by Chiefette at 10:25 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

Tell her she can't use it.  That she obviously can't handle the responsibility and that you don't appreciate her lack of respect.


-- Posted by XxshadowdancerxX at 10:26 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

I know what to do.. I'm just not sure how to say it without getting my ass kicked


-- Posted by Chiefette at 10:30 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

Just do it, if she tries shit tell her to get the fuck out and if she tries shit, call the cops.


-- Posted by ajakana at 10:30 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

Fuck what she thinks or says just straight up tell her no


-- Posted by XxshadowdancerxX at 10:33 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

Grrrrrr.... It's not that easy when her friends will beat the crap out of you


-- Posted by blufindr at 10:56 pm on Sep. 30, 2008

It's your phone. Why are you letting her use it anyway?


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