-- Posted by TKDgoneveggie at 12:12 pm on Oct. 2, 2008 once again i've been hurt, just like every other time i've opened myself up to a guy...i get led on and used and hurt and shot down but then they say "you're a really nice girl and you'll find the right guy for you, any guy would be lucky to have you" i HATE it when people say that!!! especially when you are fucking breaking my heart...it's such bullshit...if i was really so wonderful, wouldn't i have actually had a real relationship by now? like wtf those pussies should just be straight with me i don't even know how to feel right now...i'm all over the place...numb, angry, sad, indignant...idk...sometimes life blows -- Posted by scotttyyyboyyy at 12:16 pm on Oct. 2, 2008 smoke a joint would be my advice (if you dont smoke) then see a shrink. -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 12:17 pm on Oct. 2, 2008 i would hate that too. guys are so retarded. -- Posted by BranMan at 7:53 pm on Oct. 3, 2008 I'm sorry you're having these problems. Before you start dating a guy, you should get to know him really well and learn to trust him. You could also try to stay single for a while. If this continues to happen it could lower your self-asteem and that isn't good. You should try talking to one of the guys that have broken your heart and see why they started dating you. It could be that you act or you are vulnerable and some guys would take advantage of that. Don't let anything that happens in your dating life affect your emotions. Sure, you're going to be upset, but I wouldn't let bother me so much that I started to break down and feel down all the time. Sooner or later you will find a nice guy who actually cares and won't hurt you. I wish you the best of luck and hope you feel better. If you need any other advice feel free to message me any time you'd like!