-- Posted by Kaijuu at 6:20 pm on Oct. 4, 2008 This guy tried to rape me he was holding me down and the head of his penis went in my vagina he took it out because i tricked him when he asked was it in... 1 thing led to another and i ended up letting him do anal so he would stop am i still a virgin? -- Posted by Wolf at 6:29 pm on Oct. 4, 2008 Hey. I am really sorry that this happend to you. Sexual abuse and rape are extremely hard to deal with, and I first and foremost; I want to tell you that I am always willing to talk with you about it. Just private message me, or catch me on AIM. Virginity is a subjective term. It means many things to many different people. There isn't a physical characteristic that determines virginity at all. Some call it "having sex." Even then there are more semantics involved: Is rape itself included? If it's in there for a second does it "count." If it just touched and kinda penetrated, then what does that mean? There are so many different factors. It is up to you to decide what it means to you. You have not voluntarily had vaginal sexual intercourse with anyone. I consider you to be a virgin. If you want to consider yourself a virgin, then by all means do. It's a subjective, semantic label used by society to classify. It meaning can be different. Feel free to private message me if you want clarification on anything, or want to ask any other questions. ~Shaun