-- Posted by doTHEchickenDANCE at 12:58 am on Oct. 6, 2008 I am so scared of death. Like I use to be scared of death, then I got over it. But lately I have been thinking alot about dying, and the people around me dying. I hate thinking about it, it makes me sick, but I cant help it. Mainly I think about, what if my Mum died, or one of my sisters, or My Dad or even my boyfreind. When I miss them, I cant just walk out into the loung room and say hey, or just call them up you know? Its like I'll never ever see, hug, touch, kiss, feel or talk to them again & it depresses me so much. Then I think, well make the most of it while they are alive, and then the bad thoughts pop right back into my head, like, what does it matter how much fun you had with that person, because there dead now. Is there any way that I can stop thinking like this? -- Posted by Skip at 12:58 am on Oct. 6, 2008 yeah, u can accept that everyone must die thats all -- Posted by Justins Luvmuffin at 1:01 am on Oct. 6, 2008 I used to bee. But hey, it's something everybody's gotta face one day. -- Posted by cheeseball giver at 1:02 am on Oct. 6, 2008 I know how you feel. 'Just take a long good shower, or just listen to music. -- Posted by Roy at 1:02 am on Oct. 6, 2008 appreciate every moment you have with your loved ones because they are all going to die as will u and me and everyone on this website we will all die dead gone forever i hope u feel better ok -- Posted by BlackCookie at 1:02 am on Oct. 6, 2008 Just accept the fact that death happens. -- Posted by bexxxx121 at 1:03 am on Oct. 6, 2008 I know the feeling but as it gets to that time when they do pass away you will regret never living life to the full and spending as much fun with those people. It's a gift to be able to say how much you cared for one person and how much of a great person they were. -- Posted by medjai at 1:12 am on Oct. 6, 2008 When I was younger, and to an extent today, I had/have the same issue. I'm very psychologically strong so I push it to the back of my mind, but when I was eight years old and home alone waiting for my mother to get back from work I'd sit on the green high voltage box in the front yard instead of play soccer with my little brother and the neighborhood kids because I was so crippled with worry for my mother. -- Posted by mcrdude at 3:21 am on Oct. 6, 2008 everyone has to die at somepoint in there life, there is no getting away from it, but that is why enjoying life and enjoying being round the people is so important, lets say, if they do die (which they probably wont) the reason you should enjoy your time with them is so you have your memories of that person, and nobody can take your memories away -- Posted by Gehad at 1:09 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 when u have these thoughts just close ur eyes and say that they're still alive around u and u can see, hug, touch, kiss, feel & talk 2 them... best wishes -- Posted by DyingRaven at 3:17 pm on Nov. 1, 2008 i was scared like that i wud just randomly cry because i couldnt bare to lose the ppl i held so closley and dyin myself wud be scary and b4 i went to the hospital on suicide attemt i was abit scared, i couldnt control n e thing and thats reality death comes sooner or later, just make hapy memories with the ones u love so u can look back without regret, get everything out while u still can....dont wait until its too late