-- Posted by thatfan00 at 12:29 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 well i am friends with some1 who i secretly liked. i dint wanna say anything cause if she rejected me it would be really akward and would hurt our friendship. i found out this person now is dating some1 else. i know its kinda my fault for not doing naything, but i cant help but feel hurt. the prob is we are still friends so i gotta worry about seeing her and i cant just avoid this person to make this pass liek other situations. how can i get over this person but still remain friends? im hurt right now guys so any advice will help any1 who has been in this situation post up some tips thanks i put htis in here b/c it sbeen bothering me a lot lately and causing me to feel stressed out. if wrong forum then mods please move -andrew -- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 12:31 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 find someone else -- Posted by SlimJimGurl at 12:33 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 Move on. -- Posted by zack mcgee 2010 at 12:33 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 dnt say anything theyll hate you -- Posted by Tabbie at 12:34 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 move on or wait it out -- Posted by thatfan00 at 12:37 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 i know "move on" ... thats true, i dont wanna deal with this for long. but the ignore thing came 1st to mind....but we're still friends. i still talk to her/she talks to me...but how do i get over her when i always see her? thats my main thing. andrew -- Posted by faith677 at 12:41 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 if u wait it out you will just get fustrated i would move on for a while & if y still like her after her & her bf break up go for it -- Posted by Gehad at 12:42 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 if she likes this guy then don't say anything and i'm sure that u'll find some1 else & maybe this some1 is right in front of ur eyes just try to let it go to keep ur friendship i know it's not easy but just try -- Posted by ajakana at 12:42 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 Try to avoid her on certain days just don't go outside or go somewhere earlier you really can't avoid her but find some one else -- Posted by kristina16 at 12:44 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 The best thing you can do [honestly by personal experience] become her best friend, believe me, sooner or later they're going to have problems and you'll be there to contimplate her! Me and my ex are now best friends like crazy, im in love with him, but im not tellling him for a while because i don't want to ruin anything, but being close friends, I'm becoming to see how great it truly is! They will break up eventually, and she'll know you were ALWAYS there, sooner or later [maybe she already has but you waited too long] she will be curious as to why she didn't give you a chance. Just be there :) -- Posted by Romesds at 12:48 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 Quote: from kristina16 at 12:44 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 The best thing you can do [honestly by personal experience] become her best friend, believe me, sooner or later they're going to have problems and you'll be there to contimplate her! Me and my ex are now best friends like crazy, im in love with him, but im not tellling him for a while because i don't want to ruin anything, but being close friends, I'm becoming to see how great it truly is! They will break up eventually, and she'll know you were ALWAYS there, sooner or later [maybe she already has but you waited too long] she will be curious as to why she didn't give you a chance. Just be there :) NO  DO NOT DO THIS.  THIS IS SOME OF THE WORSE ADVICE EVER ONCE YOU GET INTO THAT FRIEND YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A CHNACE GIRLS SAY YOU WILL BUT REALY U WONT. -- Posted by Romesds at 12:49 pm on Oct. 6, 2008 FRIEND ZONE***