-- Posted by belmo at 11:55 am on Oct. 7, 2008 I just started going to a new school and im trying to turn my life around from the mess of parties and drugs every other night. So a few days in a met this girl that just makes me so happy when im around her, and she acts like shes really interested in me and stuff. shes always holding onto me and not letting go, having me wrap my arms around her sides while standing. it seems so great. but she keeps bringing up this guy and it drives me crazy. and she was talking about her homecoming dress shes gettign and i was like yeah we should go together =D and she just looked at me and said she was going with that guy. i just dont know what to do right now =| -- Posted by Amay at 11:56 am on Oct. 7, 2008 Sounds like she likes him more or shes just lonely. -- Posted by PurpleEnvy at 11:56 am on Oct. 7, 2008 Sux. She probably just likes you as a friend. :/ -- Posted by Frubeling at 11:56 am on Oct. 7, 2008 All that you can do, get over it -- Posted by RiffRiffRiff at 11:58 am on Oct. 7, 2008 Fucking attention whores. She's using you like a tampon. -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 11:59 am on Oct. 7, 2008 wait till after homecoming. she's probably still has a lot on her mind about that guy but she'll get over it -- Posted by belmo at 12:00 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 it just seems so different then the normal girl that uses a guy. she seems so happy to see me when we hang out, and shes not all whorish, shes a girl that keeps her bible with her all the time, a virgin, its just so cunfusing -- Posted by runthespread at 12:02 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 Girls are just like that. I don't know if they realize it or not but their idea of being friendly with guys can be blatant flirting. The guy usually loses out though and she continues on. Sorry. Be straight up with her about it. -- Posted by latenights at 12:04 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 sounds like me. likes to have close relationships with guys even though im dating. im very comfortable with all my guy friends -- Posted by runthespread at 1:18 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 Quote: from latenights at 12:04 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 sounds like me. likes to have close relationships with guys even though im dating. im very comfortable with all my guy friends So what distinguishes your bf from these other guys that I'm assuming you hold and get held by and what not? How do you feel about these guys perhaps getting the wrong impression? What's the reason you like being close like that with them, is it sexual (not necessarily sex)? I think guys may want to know these things.