-- Posted by iamironman at 9:15 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 It seems like everything is going wrong right now, and I'm not sure how much longer I can deal with it without having a fucking breakdown. Some things that are going on. My brother has brain cancer I am not doing great in school right now I am not having the best relationship with my parents I am having a hard time with a girl I just broke my laptop computer, which has all of my pictures and important documents. I might have just lost one of my closest friends Why do things happen all at once? I can't deal with this anymore! -- Posted by m8ggi3 at 9:15 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 bcuz- life sux. -- Posted by matto at 9:16 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Hang in there man.  This is going to make whatever happens in the future be much more appreciable. -- Posted by I heart nubs at 9:16 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Same here. We're all having these times. For me most of it has to do with the economy. Life is just so stressful sometimes. You'll learn how to overcome these problems however. Don't worry. -- Posted by bigredron at 9:16 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 wow your life is fucking terrible. Apart from your brothers story (that does suck), you can fix all of the above. Stop whinging and do something to change your life and make it better. Noone else will do it for you -- Posted by silverrose42 at 9:17 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 My life got better tonight, while going down the tubes... long story short, bf and I doing good now, b/c of my bff getting horrible reactions to the drugs she's on (medical, not stupid, illegal ones). So it's gone to hell in a handbasket, but well at the same time. -- Posted by jmh7 at 9:17 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 im with u dude , one of my good friends wont ever talk to me again and i recently lost the lives of 2 my best friends in a car accident -- Posted by mtllcrckmn at 9:17 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Dude, just wait till all the good things start to happen :O -- Posted by Wolf118 at 9:18 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Cant do much about your brother but hope for the best Sometimes you just dont do good in school Keeping a perfect relationship with your parents is hard because your ALWAYS with them >> Dunno enough about the girl to give a reason Dont worry about the laptop, it can be fixed even if you have to send it in! Why did you lose one of your closest friends? Sometimes one bad thing happens, and you start to concentrate on everything else bad that has been happening in your life, you just didn't notice it until now. Now that your in a bad mood your mind just sees everything in a horrible way, but just try to be as positive as you can! Good luck!! -- Posted by Kadgarth at 9:19 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Everything with the exception of your brothers issue is your own doing (or at least in part your fault). Perhaps if you spent more time paying attention to real life and didn't have 16,000 posts on an online forum you'd be able to take care of the things that matter better? -- Posted by nullPointerException at 9:21 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 dunno. js for your lap top, if the hard drive is good just put it in a different commputer and save it all to a flash drive. if the os bricked, reinstall vista with the disk and all your old files will automatically be placed into a new folder. -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 9:25 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 my life is worse. -- Posted by RachLeigh13 at 9:28 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Wow most of you guys are being FUCKING douches. I'm seriously astounded by how heartless and cruel you guys are. Seriously... I haven't been this steamed in a while. Hadley, love, I'm so sorry. I know you're super stressed and going through a hard time. I don't know what to say to you, or what I can do to comfort you. If you need someone to talk to, you know how to reach me on LW and off LW. I'll listen to you, I'll do whatever you need me to do that will provide the most comfort. -- Posted by Hi Carie at 9:30 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Quote: from RachLeigh13 at 11:28 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Wow most of you guys are being FUCKING douches. I'm seriously astounded by how heartless and cruel you guys are.   Seriously... I haven't been this steamed in a while.     Hadley, love, I'm so sorry. I know you're super stressed and going through a hard time. I don't know what to say to you, or what I can do to comfort you. If you need someone to talk to, you know how to reach me on LW and off LW. I'll listen to you, I'll do whatever you need me to do that will provide the most comfort. I am in full agreement with this post. What the hell is wrong with you people? Hadley, I am so sorry. There are not words. Know that there are people here who are heartbroken for you and with you. -- Posted by Define Your Line at 9:43 pm on Oct. 9, 2008 Hi. Wow, first off I just want to say that I really can't believe the members who have posted before me, with the exception of a couple.  Honestly, it's best that you ignore their ignorance and lack of humanity.  I am so sorry that this is happening to you right now.  I could only imagine how difficult this must be for you to deal with.  Unfortunately, these types of things happen sometimes and it's just out of our control. I am very sorry to hear about your brother.  Cancer is such a horrible thing.  I can sympathise with you as I have recently lost a close family member to cancer as well.  I know things seem really rough for you right now but you need to try your best to hang in there, despite how hard it may be.  You need to try your best to be as positive as you can.  Spend some quality time with your family.  Be there to support each other during this rough time.  Remember that things will get better.   I am sorry that you have so much on your plate right now.  I bet that many people wish they could do something to help you.  The cold, rotten truth is that sometimes, there's nothing that you can do about things like this and therefore, all you can do is hope for the best. In regards to your grades, I'm sorry you're not doing as well as you should be.  Try acquiring good study habits and work habits in order for you to potentially increase your grades. Try speaking to your parents about the way you're feeling.  Please try your best to have as much patience as you can with them considering they're obviously going through a rough time as well.  Talk to the girl that you mentioned.  Talk to your friend, that you think you have lost.  Communication is key in each of these three situations.  I know it may be difficult to do, but you need to try to be open and honest with them.  That's the only way to solve your problems in regards to these three things. Technology is really difficult to work with.  I know how it feels to lose important documents like that.  Unfortunately, there's not much you can do about it so please try not to let this particular issue bother you so much because you really do have a lot on your plate as it is.  If you ever need anything at all, please feel free to message me.  I really hope everything works out for you.  Just keep smiling.