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-- Posted by OpethGirl69 at 2:24 am on Oct. 10, 2008

I'm 18 years old. My sister and her fiancee moved in with me. I support my sister, her fiancee, and myself with my minimum wage job. Neither of them work, and they're both 20.

I'm a vegan, but I understand that it's my choice and not to be forced on my family. When I go shopping, I buy healthy foods and both things vegan and non-vegan, and most vegan things I buy are things that they'll still eat. My life revolves around supporting my family.

I gave my sister most of my paycheck today and asked her to do the grocery shopping, since I needed to dye my hair (it's gray naturally) and go to work. After work, I chilled with a friend of mine. I come home, and they bought tons of junk food and processed shit, spent about half the money I gave them on huge packages of raw meat and deli meat, and didn't buy anything I can eat. So now I get to be hungry until my next fucking paycheck.

I'd think they should show me a little tiny bit of courtesey, seeing as it's me who puts the food on the table. I had to spend MORE money at the grocery store to buy food I can actually eat without a) breaking my beliefs and b) making myself extremely sick, because I can't handle animal products anymore (if you break vegetarianism/veganism, you have to slowly reintroduce those products into your diet, so your body can handle the change).

I'm so sick of being taken advantage of and leeched off of. The stress is hugely taking its toll on me.

Luckily, I'm leaving for India, hopefully by the end of the year.

Fuck this shit.


-- Posted by scotttyyyboyyy at 2:27 am on Oct. 10, 2008

First off why the hell dont they have jobs, and thats fucking rude of them to not buy food that you would eat. I dont know how you do it lol. tell them it is temporary, that they need to get their shit together if their gonna get married..


-- Posted by classicalandrew at 2:27 am on Oct. 10, 2008

threaten to kick them out if they do it again...


-- Posted by OpethGirl69 at 2:28 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Quote: from classicalandrew at 5:27 am on Oct. 10, 2008


threaten to kick them out if they do it again...

Our dad owns the house, technically. I'm gone soon anyway.


-- Posted by maceyface at 2:29 am on Oct. 10, 2008

obviously you do not need to put up with this, you're an adult now, find yourself something better. you are being an amazing sister. but you're not doing anybody any favors, especially yourself. find something better, push them into something better, because you deserve that.


-- Posted by classicalandrew at 2:29 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Quote: from OpethGirl69 at 2:28 am on Oct. 10, 2008


Quote: from classicalandrew at 5:27 am on Oct. 10, 2008

threaten to kick them out if they do it again...

Our dad owns the house, technically. I'm gone soon anyway.



lol good...i'd hate to think you'd live with those jerks lol
(unless you somehow like them...)


-- Posted by nicktodd at 2:32 am on Oct. 10, 2008



-- Posted by Napster the Hacker at 2:36 am on Oct. 10, 2008

hope you have a god time in india :), lol i bet those guys gonna miss you alot when they feel hungry :P


-- Posted by blufindr at 2:49 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Holy hell, what the fuck? I'd think that they'd be a little nicer.

Next time, don't buy any meat and tell them to fucking live with it. They should be paying for SOMETHING, not relying on you for everything.


-- Posted by cherryD at 2:54 am on Oct. 10, 2008

 It's seriously unfair for you.
 You are 18 and both of them are 20 and they depend on you to feed them and yet they don't even seem to care that they are spending your wages away and...what the heck.


-- Posted by OpethGirl69 at 3:13 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Quote: from blufindr at 5:49 am on Oct. 10, 2008


Holy hell, what the fuck? I'd think that they'd be a little nicer.

Next time, don't buy any meat and tell them to fucking live with it. They should be paying for SOMETHING, not relying on you for everything.


They bitch when I don't buy enough meat. Fuck man, they're such ungrateful little bitches.

I'm thinking about applying for food stamps.


-- Posted by rosebud at 3:14 am on Oct. 10, 2008

sounds like cinderella


-- Posted by blufindr at 3:15 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Quote: from OpethGirl69 at 8:13 pm on Oct. 10, 2008


Quote: from blufindr at 5:49 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Holy hell, what the fuck? I'd think that they'd be a little nicer.  

 Next time, don't buy any meat and tell them to fucking live with it. They should be paying for SOMETHING, not relying on you for everything.


They bitch when I don't buy enough meat. Fuck man, they're such ungrateful little bitches.

I'm thinking about applying for food stamps.


Don't listen to them bitching. They're under your roof spending your money. Fuck what they want.


-- Posted by rozi k at 3:32 am on Oct. 10, 2008

tell them to work for a living and that they're selfish bastards


-- Posted by K SUN at 8:48 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

you gotta tell them your the one who provides and they must do your bidding. or u can buy all vegan stuff and make them suffer..


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