-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:33 pm on Oct. 10, 2008 Hi sorry if this is abit long but I would like some advice please. I have known this guy for about 3 years, and at first we never use to get along with each other, and I mean we couldn't even be in the same room together it was that bad, anyway we lost contact for a while and recently got back in touch with each other threw a friend. Since we have been talking to each other again, he as been really nice to me like we have always been best mates or somethin. Now I know for a fact that he doesn't fancy me or anything as I am not his type of girl and vice virsa. Back to the point ... We have been chatting about stuff like music + films and so on, and it seems like we click really well ( if you get how i mean ) well anyway, I was chatting to him tonight and he told me that he has got a girl pregnant and he doesn't know what to do about it, he asked for my advice which I did give to him the best I could but told him its between you and the girl. He asked me not to tell anybody as hes not sure what he wants to do yet. He said nobody but me, him and the girl know about it. He said promise me you wont tell anybody, so I said I wouldn't which I wont. ( except you, thats why I am anonymous ) What I dont understand is why he told me and not someone like his best mate! Could you help me understand why please as my head is all baffeled. Thank you x -- Posted by HatesYou at 6:35 pm on Oct. 10, 2008 Perhaps because you have been talking for so long, and like you said, you clicked.  He probably feels he can trust you.  This happens all the time its nothing strange.  Just embrace the fact that he trusts you and try and support him as best as you can. -- Posted by Darth at 6:41 pm on Oct. 10, 2008 I think you suck at keeping secrets. "I won't tell anyone but a truck load of people I don't know." What a great friend you are. He SHOULDN'T have told you. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:49 pm on Oct. 10, 2008 Quote: from Darth at 6:41 pm on Oct. 10, 2008 I think you suck at keeping secrets. "I won't tell anyone but a truck load of people I don't know." What a great friend you are. He SHOULDN'T have told you. Thats why they are anonymous !!! I think you should just be there and support him the best you can. He needs to talk to the girl about it tho as its their lives that will change and not yours. I think that he told you because he trusts you even if you have told us! so what? Its not as if we know you because you are anonymous. Good luck.