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-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:24 pm on Oct. 11, 2008
I have early classes everyday until 7:30p...I get 4 hours of sleep every night...So pretty much throughout the week I don't get enough sleep...Everything thing I do is on a time schedule...I have a physical class that I have everyday that I have to take a shower for...The problem is that everyday my roomy has her bf over and every single day I have to ask them to leave so that I can have some privacy to get dressed so I can get to class...by the time I'm finished with classes, I'm tired and irritable and every time I go to my room I have to see his face...I think this is totally unfair...Most of the morning til night he's in my room...My roomy doesn't go to class like she's supposed to, so when she's in the room she's supposed to be gone so I can get a quick nap since I sleep 4 hours a day...Sometimes she tries to get her bf to skip class to be with her...All she does is sleep anyway...I mean she never leaves the room at all...And all they do is get in her bed and kiss and all that other shit keeping me up and disturbing me...She acts like she can't go anywhere else...I'm at my wits end with the bullshit...This has been going since school started...I know she wouldn't like it if it was the other way around because my bf don't give a fuck what he say or do and I just want to keep the peace...If it keeps happening I will blow up and I don't want to get in trouble for saying or doing something when I'm not the one at fault... What is my last resort?
-- Posted by White Gangster at 12:25 pm on Oct. 11, 2008
Kill her...
-- Posted by ZOMGimrae at 12:27 pm on Oct. 11, 2008
Complain to your RA
-- Posted by RIMHfire at 9:18 pm on Oct. 11, 2008
Talk to your RA. Shit's gonna happen in college. In high school, I let shit slide because I didn't want to make anybody mad, but now that I'm in college, I'm not putting up with any bullshit.
-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:46 am on Oct. 12, 2008
thank you...i did the same thing and it got me no where...no one cared about me so now it's my time not to care...thanks
-- Posted by PrintingFreak at 5:54 pm on Oct. 14, 2008
well before going to your RA, the first solution would be to solve it at its origin, have you talked to her about it, i mean she may not realize that she is affecting your necessary routines. and then you can go to your RA, if she refuses to take the matter into her hands all RAs have to answer to someone normally the A.D. or Assistant director. but most importantly try to solve the problem at the lowest level, this case being your roomate
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