-- Posted by sorrowed anger at 5:00 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 I had a friend who was my cat but he died like 5 years ago. I was in girl scouts then and i had a meeting the night that he died. he was an outdoor cat. that night i was told that he was run over by a car. when i got into my mom's car after the meeting i started bursting into tears. Then a year or 2 later i found out that my parents lied to me and that tiger was actually electrocuted because the people who killed him hated cats. i was 10 years old when he died. now each year i get sadder and yesterday i made my self sick for crying my self to sleep for a month. i also feel like i have to avenge him. so now i have so much anger built up inside me i don't know what to do. -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 5:09 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 i think u should see a counselor. -- Posted by PhoenixFire613 at 5:14 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 I'm sorry for your loss. But it's in the past, and there's really nothing that you can do about it. Look on the bright side; your cat is in a better place. -- Posted by sccerfreak at 5:15 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 You can't go through life dwelling on every bad thing that ever happens to you b/c you'd never be happy. The cat was going to die someday. Yeah it sucks that it happened like that but you need to let it go. -- Posted by sorrowed anger at 5:38 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 yeah but he was only 4 years old he wasn't that old he had a lot more years in him. and he was loyal and used to cheer me up thats hard to find in other cats trust me. i have 3 to try to fill in the void. -- Posted by silverbullets at 10:05 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Quote: from sorrowed anger at 8:38 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 yeah but he was only 4 years old he wasn't that old he had a lot more years in him. and he was loyal and used to cheer me up thats hard to find in other cats trust me. i have 3 to try to fill in the void. 4 years is actually the average life expectancy of an outdoor cat. just remember that if you love an animal alot, you wont let it live outdoors. -- Posted by sorrowed anger at 8:21 am on Oct. 12, 2008 but he snuck out of the house a lot -- Posted by CherieDee at 10:23 am on Oct. 12, 2008 cat? i think you need some help..