-- Posted by SimShrimp at 8:51 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 I have this friend.  For years now, she's been throwing herself and one guy or another any chance she gets.  Once she sees a guy she likes, the stalks him until he realizes she's stalking him, he tells her off, she calls him an expletive, she sees another guy, and on the cycle goes. Well, recently she began to like her teacher who's 15+ years older than her and married. It started with a simple "he's good looking", so I didn't think much of it...everyone thinks that of a teacher at some point.  Then she decided that she's going to break up his marriage.  Great.   On top of that, her best friend, who is a guy, today was hanging out with her at his house and they made out on his bed, which now makes her think "Part of me wants to rip his clothes off and jump him, but then part of me is Hey this is a 2 year friendship.." She's already in therapy; she started cutting after a guy rejected her last year. I really don't know what to do with this girl.  It's gotten a little uncontrollable... -- Posted by MaryLin at 10:22 am on Oct. 16, 2008 Ugh, that is one difficult situation and I don't know what you should do about it. I guess the first thing she needs to do is to realize on her own what she's been doing wrong. In her case you certainly cannot help her unless she helps herself first. Good to hear that she's already in therapy, hopefully that will get a start for her for the better.