-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:12 am on Oct. 12, 2008 I have to get it out of my system. First of all, the "Teen Dating and Relationships" forum and the "Teen Sexuality" forums never fail to disappoint me. Every single fucking person aged 15+ has had a romantic relationship or date of SOME KIND. Even if they don't consider it "real", they still have. They have all felt what it's like to like someone who likes you back, and most of them know what it feels like to kiss, hold hands and talk softly in eachother's ears. I, on the other hand, have done nothing with guys in my entire life. I have a few guy FRIENDS, but that's it. I've SLOW danced with a couple of them at dances, but that's the most contact I've ever had with them. Yeah, I'm seventeen, and have the love life of your average eleven-year-old. And I can't fucking talk to attactive guys unless I have a REALLY good reason to. If they start talking to me or even look at me for more than a few seconds, I literally freeze up and start blushing awkwardly. They can totally tell. Aside from this, I guess I'm decent enough to EVENTUALLY get a boyfriend, like after highschool. But I can't help constantly thinking "what if he isn't a virgin?" I couldn't ever like a guy who's done sexual things with other girls. I wouldn't want a boyfriend to have it in his head that time when he had sex with that skinny blonde chick and comparing her to me. I couldn't like a guy if I knew he wasn't a virgin, period. And only something like 49% of 18-year-old guys are virgins. The less he's done with girls(romantically or sexually) the better, the more he's done, the worse. And it kills me to think that all of the guys I like probably jack off to porn of girls screwing eachother. ..... -- Posted by Pendulum at 11:13 am on Oct. 12, 2008 You think FAR too much, just go with the flow girl :) -- Posted by Frubeling at 11:13 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 7:12 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 I have to get it out of my system. First of all, the "Teen Dating and Relationships" forum and the "Teen Sexuality" forums never fail to disappoint me. Every single fucking person aged 15+ has had a romantic relationship or date of SOME KIND. Even if they don't consider it "real", they still have. They have all felt what it's like to like someone who likes you back, and most of them know what it feels like to kiss, hold hands and talk softly in eachother's ears.   False -- Posted by Radioactivv at 11:14 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Date a priest. -- Posted by CarolineLouise at 11:15 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Wow really so even if you fall in love with a guy and then he tells you he's not a virgin that's going to stop all your feelings -- Posted by Skip at 11:16 am on Oct. 12, 2008 talk to me and ill tell u what ur problem is and how to solve it -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:18 am on Oct. 12, 2008 I'm a 20 year old male who is even worse than you with this stuff. -- Posted by superchris4000 at 11:21 am on Oct. 12, 2008 I completely agree! I experience the same thing! Right now I'm just trying to get a stinking girlfriend! -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:21 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Quote: from CarolineLouise at 11:15 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Wow really so even if you fall in love with a guy and then he tells you he's not a virgin that's going to stop all your feelings I'm sure I wouldn't lose all my feelings. But seeing as I've never been in love, I don't really know. I mean, if I just met a guy I found attractive and decent, but found out he wasn't a virgin. I'd just be ridiculously jealous. -- Posted by Dannyjoe1000 at 11:22 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Shut up -- Posted by Ju5tin at 11:22 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Relax. There are plenty of people your age who have never had a relationship. Just be patient and don't rush it; get in a relationship when YOU'RE ready, not when every one else younger is. -- Posted by Lala ninja at 11:26 am on Oct. 12, 2008 LOL probably! try not to think about the last bit though! lool -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:30 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Quote: from Lala ninja at 11:26 am on Oct. 12, 2008 LOL probably! try not to think about the last bit though! lool God, fucking idiot. You are of absolutely no benefit to the forum. -- Posted by Skip at 11:31 am on Oct. 12, 2008 seriously op message me -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 11:35 am on Oct. 12, 2008 Calm down, you're seventeen years old. I know plenty of seventeen year old girls at my school who have never even SLOW DANCED with a guy, let alone hold a relationship. And listen. Relationships aren't all they're cracked up to be. You will have those moments when you'll be like, "This is great, I'm glad I did this," but a lot of the time, there is a lot of hard work and pain involved. You can get hurt very easily, and it's hard not to feel possessive over a guy you're dating. Same for him. As for finding a virgin, sweetie, you won't know if their a virgin. They can lie to you all they want and make you believe they're a virgin, but most of the time, it won't be true and you'll never know the difference, so I think you need to at least let that one thing go. But as I said, wait for the right guy to come along and he will. Don't freak out about it.