-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:19 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 My boyfriend told me he didn't want to have sex because he just didn't enjoy it that much. He also said I meant a lot to him and that he didn't think he could commit to anyone forever, or be with any one person forever. What does this mean? And what do guys mean when they say to a girl that she means a lot to them? -- Posted by Hyacinth at 4:20 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 It means he wants to fuck other people. -- Posted by mendingheart518 at 4:20 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 It sounds like he cares about you, but maybe not ready for a commitment -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 4:21 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 he's not a man whore. and he actually cares about u. -- Posted by emo asian girl at 4:21 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 probably he doesnt just want the relationship to be about sex... so yea.. and it means yoiu mean alot to him... its pretty self-explanatory. -- Posted by Chiefette at 4:23 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 He cares about you, but he doesn't love you and he doesn't see you in his future, and he wants to see other people. -- Posted by allsmiles at 4:23 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 Men don't normally speak with hidden messages. It means what it reads as. -- Posted by xannabellax at 4:23 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 okiee'so read rwad a book once and stuf.. and in the book this  chick wanted to fuck her bf really bad and everytime she thought it was going to happen he ended up saying nooo and so later she found out he was cheatingon her and sleeping with her friend...soo maybe he is cheating on youuuu...heheh...talk to him bout that   be like: "hoe!  you better not be cheating on meh!  i will seriously kick yoo asss!" -- Posted by Y3s51 at 4:26 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 he likes u but maybe he thinks u dontnoe how 2 have sex -- Posted by hollenda 08 at 4:27 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 it means he dosent ever want 2 get married  or wht ever thats from a boyfriend who said that 2 meh -- Posted by LittleBombs at 4:28 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 He cares alot about you, and is maybe scared that sex will ruin things. -- Posted by hithere at 5:55 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 he's saying you're his temporary first choice -- Posted by mcodeath at 3:19 am on Oct. 13, 2008 Quote: from allsmiles at 6:23 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 Men don't normally speak with hidden messages. It means what it reads as. This. I hate when people always assume we talk in some crazed code. -- Posted by Ladybird at 1:26 am on Oct. 16, 2008 Quote: from mendingheart518 at 3:20 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 It sounds like he cares about you, but maybe not ready for a commitment agreed