-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:32 pm on Oct. 17, 2008 College is life is so confusing. I feel like I've improved so much socially, but then I have days when I feel insecure & it's kind of difficult for me to socialize. It's so hard to get rid of negative thoughts, and I probably shouldn't be taking this so seriously, but dorming life puts a lot of pressure on me. I'm a freshman, but it's been about two months since school started. Help! -- Posted by rrachelll at 6:35 pm on Oct. 17, 2008 just keep focusing on the fact that you need to put yourself out there, cause if you dont, you'll get so caught up in everything and then it will be too late. just wait until you make great friends, and then you'll feel better =] -- Posted by jessicries at 6:36 pm on Oct. 17, 2008 Just hang in there. I am a senior in college and went through the same thing my freshman year. You'll be okay. PM me if you want to talk more.