-- Posted by Mally17 at 11:10 pm on Oct. 17, 2008 okayy im with this guy and he's totally controling.. and i like this other guy but he likes me and my BEST friend... my boyfriend wont let me do anything without him.. and i cant hang around other guys or he flips out hella bad..like hitting bad.. and for the other guy my friend doesn't like him and he wants to be with me.. but my boyfriend would totalyy flip if i broke up with him for another guy... what to i do...stay with sexy control freak. or go with the other guy who's nice. caring. and a gentlemen. and HOT.. im SO confused...GEERR -- Posted by blufindr at 11:11 pm on Oct. 17, 2008 Go with the other guy. -- Posted by grinzbie at 11:11 pm on Oct. 17, 2008 umm if he is hitting you LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. Go for this other guy, he sounds interested and your friend has no problem with it -- Posted by gdeeaz at 11:11 pm on Oct. 17, 2008 to me this is a no-brainer. Dump the abusive boyfriend and get with the other guy. -- Posted by cherryD at 11:12 pm on Oct. 17, 2008 Whether or not you are going to go out with the other guy... Break up with your boyfriend. Now.