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-- Posted by Anonymous at 3:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

So, last night, I took a bunch of drugs, and a friend came over. now we had sex, (we are both male) And I went to sleep. though i didnt really sleep. So, While i was sleeping, he started fucking me again. He didnt now I was awake. I know thats really fucked up, but I enjoyed it. we even gave a reach around. its weird. Like I feel like I was raped, But I liked it. Is it still rape?


-- Posted by jokerman757 at 3:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

Rape is forced sex....


-- Posted by LazySouthSideHyna at 3:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

You cant rape the willing.


-- Posted by Asdkfh of Kisdfoguid at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

The good kind.


-- Posted by Fauna at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

no, it wasn't non-consensual.


-- Posted by Lally at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

Quote: from LazySouthSideHyna at 6:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008


You cant rape the willing.

this


-- Posted by sk8er gurl1 at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

no it was not


-- Posted by LittleBombs at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.


-- Posted by Anonymous at 3:15 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

Quote: from LittleBombs at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008


If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.

but tech, If i was really asleep, I couldnt decide. So like if u got drunk and soem guy took advantage of you, would it still be rape?

honestly, it doesnt bother me.


-- Posted by Tearra at 3:15 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

no  lol  


-- Posted by Rastafarian at 3:16 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

Quote: from LittleBombs at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008


If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.

Rape has nothing to do with whether someone "likes it" or not.

The first time wasn't rape, as it was consensual.
The second time is a bit more ambiguous and probably wasn't rape, you were awake and never said anything, and that was proven with the reach around.

It wouldn't stand up well in court.


-- Posted by Anonymous at 3:18 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

Quote: from Rastafarian at 3:16 pm on Oct. 20, 2008


Quote: from LittleBombs at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.

Rape has nothing to do with whether someone "likes it" or not.


I also agree with this. If i was umm not me. I could say i was too afraid to let him know I was awake.


So he put him self in a bad situation.


-- Posted by ribbs011 at 3:18 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

Quote: from LazySouthSideHyna at 3:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008


You cant rape the willing.

actuly u can ... even if  a minor is willing to have sex  and they do the other person raped them...even if both are minors, then they raped each other


-- Posted by ampamp at 3:19 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

No


-- Posted by monkeydoodle77 at 3:19 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

Quote: from LazySouthSideHyna at 3:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008


You cant rape the willing.

Haha this ^


-- Posted by LittleBombs at 3:23 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

Quote: from Rastafarian at 3:16 pm on Oct. 20, 2008


Quote: from LittleBombs at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.

Rape has nothing to do with whether someone "likes it" or not.

The first time wasn't rape, as it was consensual.
The second time is a bit more ambiguous and probably wasn't rape, you were awake and never said anything, and that was proven with the reach around.

It wouldn't stand up well in court.


Well the fact that someone likes it means they won't stop it. Plus the other guy thought as they had sex once then the other person was okay with more sex. I don't mean that just cause someone gets turned on by whats happening that it isn't rape. I mean that as there was no fighting off, and he reacted as if he liked it then no it isn't rape.


-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008

hmm, I agree i dont think it was rape. It was just.. interesting


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