-- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 12:57 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 NEW ROOMMATE TODAY! WOOT WOOT     She's supposed to be here by 5, but it's almost 4 now, so we'll see... But yeah, I'm going to make sure this roommate knows there is NO alcohol in the room and NO her boyfriend cannot stay every weekend, NO canoodling with other people while I'm in the room, and NO guys staying the night or spending time in here EVERY day of the week. *excitedness* -- Posted by Mantis Mantis at 12:58 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 No wonder your other roommate left. -- Posted by chaosdisown at 12:58 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 personally, laying on the law sounds more sexual... either way, happy new roommate day. -- Posted by XOallixs0n at 12:59 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 and i'm sure she's going to let you know that she CAN run around naked, she CAN blast her music, she CAN be loud in the morning. you need to lighten up. Stop being such an über bitch, seriously. -- Posted by switchfoot52 at 12:59 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 no alchohol? i wouldn't move in unless the rent was really cheap with a rule like that -- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 1:03 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 2:59 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 and i'm sure she's going to let you know that she CAN run around naked, she CAN blast her music, she CAN be loud in the morning.   you need to lighten up. Stop being such an über bitch, seriously. How am I being a bitch if I don't want a different guy staying the night every day of the week when I have to study?  How am I being a bitch if I don't want her boyfriend staying the night every weekend so I can have some time in there too?  How am I being a bitch if I don't want alcohol or drugs in the room (which is already prohibited anyways and if any is found in here then EVERYONE gets in trouble, not just the people using it, and I don't want to jeopardize my college career for them)?  How is that being a bitch if I don't want the having sex while I'm in the room? My other roommate I let do this stuff and I found it pissed me off.  So I'm setting it straight at the beginning. -- Posted by chaosdisown at 1:08 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 1:03 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 2:59 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 and i'm sure she's going to let you know that she CAN run around naked, she CAN blast her music, she CAN be loud in the morning.    you need to lighten up. Stop being such an über bitch, seriously. How am I being a bitch if I don't want a different guy staying the night every day of the week when I have to study?  How am I being a bitch if I don't want her boyfriend staying the night every weekend so I can have some time in there too?  How am I being a bitch if I don't want alcohol or drugs in the room (which is already prohibited anyways and if any is found in here then EVERYONE gets in trouble, not just the people using it, and I don't want to jeopardize my college career for them)?  How is that being a bitch if I don't want the having sex while I'm in the room? My other roommate I let do this stuff and I found it pissed me off.  So I'm setting it straight at the beginning. you could try to forge some rules from those grounds by talking to her also, i mean you dont want to completely say to her, you cannot do anything fun in this room, your college experience is going to suck. you should both agree on rules that both of you could live by. -- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 1:10 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from chaosdisown at 3:08 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 you could try to forge some rules from those grounds by talking to her also, i mean you dont want to completely say to her, you cannot do anything fun in this room, your college experience is going to suck. you should both agree on rules that both of you could live by. I didn't say relationships and such were completely banned from the room, just not every night or evey day or every weekend.  Obviously there's going to be compromise, I'm just going to set it straight on how I feel at the beginning. -- Posted by XOallixs0n at 1:29 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from chaosdisown at 4:08 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 1:03 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 2:59 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 and i'm sure she's going to let you know that she CAN run around naked, she CAN blast her music, she CAN be loud in the morning.     you need to lighten up. Stop being such an über bitch, seriously.    How am I being a bitch if I don't want a different guy staying the night every day of the week when I have to study? How am I being a bitch if I don't want her boyfriend staying the night every weekend so I can have some time in there too? How am I being a bitch if I don't want alcohol or drugs in the room (which is already prohibited anyways and if any is found in here then EVERYONE gets in trouble, not just the people using it, and I don't want to jeopardize my college career for them)? How is that being a bitch if I don't want the having sex while I'm in the room?    My other roommate I let do this stuff and I found it pissed me off. So I'm setting it straight at the beginning. you could try to forge some rules from those grounds by talking to her also, i mean you dont want to completely say to her, you cannot do anything fun in this room, your college experience is going to suck. you should both agree on rules that both of you could live by. exactly. it's called compromise. she's paying the same amount of money for your room as you are. You do not own the room. She is not a guest. Don't treat her like one. -- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 1:30 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 3:29 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 exactly. it's called compromise. she's paying the same amount of money for your room as you are. You do not own the room. She is not a guest. Don't treat her like one. You didn't read my last post. -- Posted by XOallixs0n at 1:33 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 4:30 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 3:29 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 exactly. it's called compromise. she's paying the same amount of money for your room as you are. You do not own the room. She is not a guest. Don't treat her like one. You didn't read my last post. i don't like to think I stalk people on here. -- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 1:35 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 3:33 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 4:30 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 3:29 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 exactly. it's called compromise. she's paying the same amount of money for your room as you are. You do not own the room. She is not a guest. Don't treat her like one.    You didn't read my last post. i don't like to think I stalk people on here. Yeah, but if you're going to be part of a conversation then you should read all the parts of it before you reply, just incase someone else has already covered your question/answer. -- Posted by morrisonsMYmuse at 10:04 am on Oct. 24, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 3:59 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 and i'm sure she's going to let you know that she CAN run around naked, she CAN blast her music, she CAN be loud in the morning.   you need to lighten up. Stop being such an über bitch, seriously. i concur!