-- Posted by metrico at 11:12 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Okay so I was wondering for the girls if like, did a guy's body like really play into a factor of whether or not they really liked them or not cause I was just wondering because most of the guys that I see in relationships are usually like, either super emo skinny or are super lean/muscular or somewhere in between. -- Posted by melodysoaringthru at 11:14 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 What are you? -- Posted by snowcone200 at 11:14 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 I hope it don't I'm skinny and must rely on cuteness -- Posted by blufindr at 11:15 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 ...Que? I don't find it important. As long as he doesn't squash me when we're having sex, 'sall good. -- Posted by tell me again at 11:17 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 All three is fine, as long as he's not scrawny/obese. I think most girls would agree.. -- Posted by scotttyyyboyyy at 11:18 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 where the hell do YOU live! -- Posted by metrico at 11:27 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 Quote: from melodysoaringthru at 11:14 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 What are you? I see myself as chubby, like enough to be self conscious without a shirt. Other people have said otherwise but idk. -- Posted by Just Waiting Here at 11:45 pm on Oct. 21, 2008 When I started liking my boyfriend, I didn't know what he looked like. I personally really don't care about the person's looks.  I can only be attracted to them through their personality.  I have never seen someone that would be considered good looking and thought, "I wish he was my boyfriend" or, "It would be nice if we could hang out". Either way, my boyfriend is underweight, and I'm overweight.  It's all good ^_^. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 5:34 am on Oct. 22, 2008 Nope. The above poster puts it best. :) -- Posted by jennay at 10:05 am on Oct. 22, 2008 i have to be attracted to the guy and for that to occur i have to like his body. i like a lightly muscular guy, not skinny but not fat. and average height or a bit above -- Posted by PromiseMe at 11:37 am on Oct. 22, 2008 i dont really like skinny... I like stronger ones but ... Extremes are bad in any situation. Balance... balance is good. -- Posted by child of rock n roll at 11:37 pm on Oct. 24, 2008 I actually pay more attention to the face than anything. Like someone previously said, as long as they arent skinny skinny or obese, its fine. -- Posted by txstudd3 at 12:07 am on Oct. 25, 2008 i've ranged from avg build to toned and have almost always had really hot girls that i've been able to do stuff with.   i think as long as you aren't obese then they don't care!, and even then some of them are into that! -- Posted by metrico at 7:39 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 I guess I'm just insecure then, I assume cause girls don't pay much attention to me that I'm not desirable physically. I mean I'm not fat at all, and I've had people tell me I'm cute but still not much attention at all, like no flirting.   -- Posted by twilightdancer at 9:56 am on Oct. 27, 2008 I have to admit I am just not attracted to heavy guys.  It may be because I'm such a naturally skinny person, and I feel like if I had a heavy guy, we would look weird together, and he would squish me, lol. However, if I like a guy it doesn't matter.  I think my boyfriend is the most beautiful guy I have ever seen, but it is true that he has a little belly fat, and certainly no 6 pack lol.  However, his muscular arms are a huge turn on ;)