-- Posted by ThisVampireHeart at 11:18 am on Oct. 23, 2008 half of my friends are very judgemental, but i still love them. the other half are not, i love them too. obviously i'd tell the non-judgemental friends things that are important to me, recently the fact i did some minor self harming and that i'm planning to have sex with my boyfriend. as you might guess one of these friends was 'worried' about me, now all of my 'friends' know. not only does this mean that i feel betrayed by my friend but now i have to put up with slut jokes and possibly being turned in to student services for hurting myself. what can i do? i had a reason for keep it from them and now everything is fucked up. -- Posted by Randomx123 at 11:21 am on Oct. 23, 2008 thats not self-harming at all, most ppl are having sex as teens. -- Posted by Crackbuddy at 11:27 am on Oct. 23, 2008 yeah alot of teens are having sex... && i would jus talk to her.... and probly jus not trust that girl wit stuff like that........ -- Posted by tell me again at 11:39 am on Oct. 23, 2008 Ugh, it sucks when a "worried friend" doesn't have common sense to not tell someone something. I think the best thing to do is just to wait for it to blow over...sorry to say. Don't avoid your "judgmental" friends though, and try to talk sensibly with them so that they realize that you aren't any different. (But if they're really getting to you... kick their ass. =/ )