-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:05 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 What if I really am in love with her? I can't stand the way I feel about her. Its too hard, because she doesn't like me back. So what do I do? Its easier just to say that I am not in love with her. Because real "LOVE" only comes once in a lifetime, right? So IF this were it, and IF I said I was in love with her.. I'd be missing out on love. This might not make any sense... She doesnt like me back. I might be in love with her. But I always say I'm not. Because If I really am in love with her.... Then... It only comes once in a lifetime. So I'd be missing out on true happiness. Everybody portrays "love" to be eternal happiness. So.. If I'm in love with her, Im damned, right? -- Posted by maceyface at 9:06 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 real love definitely does not come once in a lifetime. -- Posted by innocenteyes at 9:06 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 in a odd way i know exactly what ur saying lol -- Posted by sexybrown0304 at 9:06 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 Well first off, you have a crazy idea about how love works....it doesnt just come once in a lifetime.... -- Posted by Googoie at 9:07 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 Quote: from innocenteyes at 12:06 am on Oct. 26, 2008 in a odd way i know exactly what ur saying lol indeedo -- Posted by sicosys at 9:07 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 Quote: from innocenteyes at 9:06 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 in a odd way i know exactly what ur saying lol I did too lol -- Posted by rosebud at 9:07 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 why do you think real love only comes once in a lifetime? when people say that there is one perfect person out there and one love and etc., thats all stupid sappy bullshit that has no relation to reality. -- Posted by rosebud at 9:08 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 you might not love anybody your entire life or you may love 100 people -- Posted by rockerprincess at 9:09 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 Uuugh love is ways messing up peoples normal lives and making them dream unrealistically. If she dosent like you back even after you have waited a while...then call her ur first love and maybe the first mistake ur heart made ( if shes mean to you )... Im trying to do the same thing....if im in LOVE with my boyfriend...im in deep trouble :S -- Posted by innocenteyes at 9:14 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 hes saying that there is only one TRUE love in a lifetime and if this girl is his true love and its over then he's screwed i know exactly what he means xD coz there was this girl i loved for 3 years, still kinda do, but she never liked me back and ever since her ive liked other girls and even dated one, but never felt for them what i felt for that first girl. -- Posted by k thomas at 9:15 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 I feel the same way about a girl... still feel it... it HURTS!! i mean before all this i'm just a geeky nerd who study and play alternately, i even swore an oath to never ever have a gf, or hav sex, or get married. the next day after that, i fell for a girl!! it's fucking painful and untreatable------- -- Posted by Anonymous at 9:16 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 Quote: from innocenteyes at 9:14 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 hes saying that there is only one TRUE love in a lifetime and if this girl is his true love and its over then he's screwed i know exactly what he means xD coz there was this girl i loved for 3 years, still kinda do, but she never liked me back and ever since her ive liked other girls and even dated one, but never felt for them what i felt for that first girl. Im a girl also. You pretty much got it. Ive never even been in a relationship with her though. We came very very close to being together though. And she always flirts. Wow I hate mixed signals. -- Posted by charmgirl at 9:22 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 u really shouldnt say that.first love is not always real.its just a new feeling to your heart and probably a new experience.so the answer is in you only.find your way out of love.if theres any.jk theres a way dont worry really.hang out with friends.ive been once in your place buddy n i did the same.believe in yourself.