-- Posted by Anonymous at 3:20 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 hello everyone i have an issue, ive been recently dating this girl and i am starting to like her. Friends that went to the same school as her have told me she is a retired slut. She slept around and has had unprotected sex , although she has changed and is no longer a slut. So my problem is how do you ask a girl to get her self checked out? without being rude or ruining the relationship -- Posted by Spuddlesworth at 3:21 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Use a condom? -- Posted by r o c 2 at 3:21 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 "BITCH you might have something let me take you to get tested" -- Posted by Cyanotype at 3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Go with her, get tested yourself. -- Posted by Anonymous at 3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Quote: from Spuddlesworth at 3:21 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Use a condom? there is till risk with condoms ....... -- Posted by grinzbie at 3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 just be like "listen i think it would be good for both of us to get screened for STD's because im ready to take the next step with you" Sounds corny but being honest and upfront is a good thing for subjects like this -- Posted by Twist3dHop3s at 3:23 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Quote: from akallen at 3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Go with her, get tested yourself. agreed, be like i want to get tested, why don't you go with me. -- Posted by Spirit of Desire at 3:23 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Now look, Im not getting some STD just because you cant be fucked to go and get checked. Now go and get some damn tests or I will test you myself with a razor and some bleach. Do it something like that and you will be fine. -- Posted by ohbabyy at 3:25 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 tell her to get checked out just in case -- Posted by 0h h3ll n0 at 3:26 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Quote: from akallen at 3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Go with her, get tested yourself. Agreed. -- Posted by sicosys at 3:26 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Be like hey, we should both go get tested. -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 3:27 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Quote: from Spuddlesworth at 3:21 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Use a condom? to the OP: these do not always work. if she by chance has AIDS or HIV, it's much better to just ask her to get tested and make sure rather than just use a condom and risk catching it or anything like it yourself -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 3:29 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 if you ask her, start it off with letting her know that your opinion of her has not changed (at least i'm guessing that that's true). ease it in and just let her know that you just want to be safe and know for sure. if she says no cus she's too proud to do that for you, she's a girlfriend not worth having -- Posted by guitar freak at 3:30 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 just be like "im gona go get tested, just to be safe. you should too." -- Posted by Anonymous at 3:31 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 yea and we almost had sex once but i kind of stopped at the last minute..lol -- Posted by Amanda2774 at 3:35 pm on Oct. 26, 2008 Quote: from Twist3dHop3s at 6:23 pm on Oct. 26, 2008Quote: from akallen at 3:22 pm on Oct. 26, 2008Go with her, get tested yourself. This is what my boyfriend would probably do if it was me and him.