-- Posted by grinzbie at 12:50 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 -- Posted by babe 9793 at 12:50 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 -- Posted by Natsy at 12:51 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 -- Posted by Autumnal at 12:51 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 thanks for your help, I guess all of those things you said is true, but I'm really shy, so now the whole summer has gone by (without me seeing this guy), when school starts I guess it won't matter any more since its been so long, I really like him though, I am just so painfully shy with boys and don't know how to flirt back, or even tell if he is really flirting or just being nice -- Posted by superchris4000 at 12:51 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 the answers might not seem to go wit the questions but it probably depends on wot situation ur in? -- Posted by Googoie at 12:52 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 -- Posted by TheAntiBarbie at 12:54 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 Quote: from s3xonapl8 at 8:40 am on Aug. 13, 2003 the answers might not seem to go wit the questions but it probably depends on wot situation ur in? It's just a general FAQ for frequenly asked questions.  No it doesn't always apply to the questionaire's situation, Because every situation has the potential to be dramatically or slightly different, Like I said in the formal post, It's best to ask the question, Than to not ask at all.  It's just generally gives the members that are to shy to post there problems, and answer, or an opinionated answer to what they are dealing with.   -- Posted by tell me again at 12:54 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 Quote: from crazydaisy at 2:04 pm on Aug. 8, 2003 thanks for your help, I guess all of those things you said is true, but I'm really shy, so now the whole summer has gone by (without me seeing this guy), when school starts I guess it won't matter any more since its been so long, I really like him though, I am just so painfully shy with boys and don't know how to flirt back, or even tell if he is really flirting or just being nice What do you have to lose?  Flirt with him a little, and show him that you care about him, and you all might spark a relationship, or maybe even a good friendship, Best of luck to you. -- Posted by gdeeaz at 12:55 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 Quote: from iloverger at 1:14 am on Aug. 12, 2003 i have one question-why would you ask all these questions about your boyfriend/girlfriend? if you actually have a good relationship with them then you shouldn't have to ask other people what to do in certain situations. you should the person you are going out with!?! Well some people just can't talk to the b/f or g/f of the problems they are having, when they should.  Usually the just come here and ask the questions and get an opinion, or advice on what to do.  And then end up confronting the b/f or g/f about it.  It's best to go about it that way, Because if you come straight out with it and tell them, You could ruin your relationship, over something very small.  And all the question are about people seeking help, Because they need an opinion from us, or advice, seeking help and wanting to make the right choice, and some of the questions they have asked, we can actually compare, Because some of us has been in those specific situations before. -- Posted by funkydancer at 12:57 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 -- Posted by Maxxie at 1:13 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 -- Posted by Natsy at 1:54 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 -- Posted by Shaknbake at 8:04 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 Alright, here's my problem. My girlfriend and I have been going out for around 3 month's now. Everything had been really really good until around 2 week's ago. Then a whole bunch of stuff started happening at once. First of all we got back into school (My school is a private school and goes year round) Anyway, I got there like an hour late and when I got there she seemed really pissed off at me. Like, she wouldn't even talk to me or anything. So, I asked her what was wrong, but she kept saying nothing. Then later that day she call's me up and she is like "Your friend _____ said a whole bunch of stuff about you and that your a chronic liar" and apparantly he told her a whole bunch of other stuff. And, immediately I knew why he did it, first of all he was all pissed off at me 'cause I didn't hang out with him all summer (he isn't a very good friend of mine) and second he really like's her too. So, I told her that everything he said was a lie (which it was) and she said she believed me, but she didn't really sound too sure. Then, a few day's ago, she call's me up and she says "we need to talk" "I think we should break up" And my first reaction to this was "Are you serious?" Because to me it seemed like everything was perfect, and that everything was going good. But she was like "yes I'm serious". Then the next day I call her and I said something to the extent of "Well, can I get the reason you broke up with me?" and she says "Well, _____, _____ and I were talking the other day, and they think that I could do better. But I still really do love you." So, I said "Well, you might be able to find someone who look's better than me. But, I doubt you will find someone who care's about you more than I do." Anyway, after that we talked for a while and we got back together. Then for the last week or so, everything had been awesome, better than ever. Then all of a sudden today I go to school, and she say's hi to me and that's about it. Then I go sit at a table with her and she doesn't even talk to me or look at me, and when she does look at me she had this sort-of angry face and I asked her if she was mad and said no, but still wouldn't talk to me. So, now I'm really really confused. I love this girl so much, and I honestly do think that I could spend the rest of my life with her. But, I don't understand what could 'cause her to change attitude's toward me like that so quickly. It's not even like anything happened. Anyway, I'm just looking for any kind of insite as to what might be going through her head. Thank's in advance! -- Posted by Natsy at 3:09 am on Oct. 28, 2008 -- Posted by Sachacohen2 at 9:05 am on Oct. 28, 2008 i have one question-why would you ask all these questions about your boyfriend/girlfriend? if you actually have a good relationship with them then you shouldn't have to ask other people what to do in certain situations. you should the person you are going out with!?!