Pages: 1 2 3  Next -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:48 am on Nov. 1, 2008 im in trouble and it's illegal in my country so i'm gonna have to go abroad. most girls just go to england but well, i've always wanted to go to paris. has anyone had an abortion in france and what sort of rules are there? i havent been to a doctor or anything so i dont know  exactly how far im gone but the only two times we didnt use a condom were both about 6 weeks ago. is it difficult to get an abortion in france? would my age (15) be problematic?? -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:49 am on Nov. 1, 2008 just have someone do it for you, illegally. There are many ways to have that done without going to a professional. -- Posted by Suicidebooth at 10:49 am on Nov. 1, 2008 dont keep it then foster it dont take a kids life thats wrong -- Posted by iMalz at 10:49 am on Nov. 1, 2008 -- Posted by BleedingSteelWings at 10:49 am on Nov. 1, 2008 where are you? -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:51 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from BleedingSteelWings at 10:49 am on Nov. 1, 2008 where are you? ireland -- Posted by BleedingSteelWings at 10:51 am on Nov. 1, 2008 oh I guess its a lot worse than it looks. -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:52 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:49 am on Nov. 1, 2008 just have someone do it for you, illegally. There are many ways to have that done without going to a professional. i want to do it properly. -- Posted by Rachelw at 10:53 am on Nov. 1, 2008 keep it then adoption is always an option  but if you really opt for abortion  you could prbably go to france but make sure to go to a doctor first to make sure you are pregnant -- Posted by motorhead113 at 10:54 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Two words honey. Coat hanger. -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:54 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from Rachelw at 10:53 am on Nov. 1, 2008 keep it then adoption is always an option but if you really opt for abortion you could prbably go to france but make sure to go to a doctor first to make sure you are pregnant i cant keep it. my parent swill find out -- Posted by katrinadoodle at 10:57 am on Nov. 1, 2008 And they won't find out if you suddenly take off to France? -- Posted by TNAwrestlingfan at 10:58 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from katrinadoodle at 10:57 am on Nov. 1, 2008 And they won't find out if you suddenly take off to France? LMAO -- Posted by 17ismyluckynumber at 11:01 am on Nov. 1, 2008 keep him or her its a real baby inside u now and even tho it will suck for the next 9 moonths just think, cant you give up 9 months of your life to save one and give that baby a chance to grow up. its only 9 months and just put him orher up for adoption. -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:02 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from katrinadoodle at 10:57 am on Nov. 1, 2008 And they won't find out if you suddenly take off to France? i can just go for a day, cant i? like arrive at the airport in paris at 9am, get the abortion and be back in ireland at 9pm? -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:02 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from 17ismyluckynumber at 11:01 am on Nov. 1, 2008 keep him or her its a real baby inside u now and even tho it will suck for the next 9 moonths just think, cant you give up 9 months of your life to save one and give that baby a chance to grow up. its only 9 months and just put him orher up for adoption. i cant keep the baby my parents will find out -- Posted by 17ismyluckynumber at 11:04 am on Nov. 1, 2008 why would you want to kill your baby to begin with. -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:05 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from 17ismyluckynumber at 11:04 am on Nov. 1, 2008 why would you want to kill your baby to begin with. i cant let my parents find out -- Posted by BleedingSteelWings at 11:08 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from 17ismyluckynumber at 3:34 pm on Nov. 1, 2008 why would you want to kill your baby to begin with. it's not a baby yet until it's at least a fetus. -- Posted by isobel at 11:08 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Don't you need your parents permission to leave the country? I thought you did... -- Posted by katrinadoodle at 11:08 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 11:02 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from katrinadoodle at 10:57 am on Nov. 1, 2008 And they won't find out if you suddenly take off to France? i can just go for a day, cant i? like arrive at the airport in paris at 9am, get the abortion and be back in ireland at 9pm? And where would you be getting the money for not only the ticket but the abortion as well? Plus, that plan won't work. In France minors have to visit a councilor for a week before the abortion and need to be accompanies by an adult. -- Posted by Unaccepted at 11:10 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Why don't you just have the baby and give it up for adoption, instead of murdering it for your own mistakes. -- Posted by katrinadoodle at 11:12 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from Unaccepted at 11:10 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Why don't you just have the baby and give it up for adoption, instead of murdering it for your own mistakes. Why don't you just stay out of it and answer the question she asked, instead of shoving your morals down other people's throats. -- Posted by BleedingSteelWings at 11:17 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from Unaccepted at 3:40 pm on Nov. 1, 2008 Why don't you just have the baby and give it up for adoption, instead of murdering it for your own mistakes. Its not murder until it's a human. For fuck's sake, why cant people get that through their heads? -- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 11:31 am on Nov. 1, 2008 You need to tell your parents. Deciding what to do about an unexpected pregnancy can be very difficult. There is a lot to think about. You have to make the decision that is right for you. Consider your personal situation and your beliefs. You have several options: You can continue the pregnancy and raise the baby, even if you will be a single parent. You can continue the pregnancy and create an adoption plan to allow some one else to raise the child. -- Posted by katrinadoodle at 11:32 am on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 11:31 am on Nov. 1, 2008 You need to tell your parents. Deciding what to do about an unexpected pregnancy can be very difficult. There is a lot to think about. You have to make the decision that is right for you. Consider your personal situation and your beliefs. You have several options: You can continue the pregnancy and raise the baby, even if you will be a single parent.   You can continue the pregnancy and create an adoption plan to allow some one else to raise the child.   You left out one. The one she's already decided on. -- Posted by BleedingSteelWings at 12:20 pm on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from katrinadoodle at 4:02 pm on Nov. 1, 2008 Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 11:31 am on Nov. 1, 2008 You need to tell your parents.    Deciding what to do about an unexpected pregnancy can be very difficult. There is a lot to think about. You have to make the decision that is right for you. Consider your personal situation and your beliefs. You have several options:    You can continue the pregnancy and raise the baby, even if you will be a single parent.  You can continue the pregnancy and create an adoption plan to allow some one else to raise the child.   You left out one. The one she's already decided on. It was probably intentional... -- Posted by miimii at 12:40 pm on Nov. 1, 2008 You should obviously just go to england. It will probably be easier. Its not an easy thing having an abortion and if you're that young you should probably talk to your parents if that's what you want to do. -- Posted by islandgirl at 2:29 pm on Nov. 1, 2008 England might actually be faster and thus less likely that your parents will find out Are there any liberal organizations that can help you plan this, like planned parenthood? There have got to be people that can help you. Luckily you are not very far along and so you have a bit of extra time, but try to get it done as soon as possible! Good luck! It's situations like these which make me realize how absurd it is to make abortion illegal... -- Posted by jumperchic08 at 3:01 pm on Nov. 1, 2008 good luck Pages: 1 2 3  Next