-- Posted by cutieelise at 7:25 am on Nov. 2, 2008 how can i be more confident,as i don't feel very.and when in a club dancing i get shy and i care to much about what people say about me eg that i cant dance and when they laugh at me i stop dancing,how can i get over this. -- Posted by doggydogg at 7:26 am on Nov. 2, 2008 Drink first and I bet you will feel more confident! -- Posted by blufindr at 7:26 am on Nov. 2, 2008 Shut your eyes and imagine no-one's watching. -- Posted by MXfreak at 7:27 am on Nov. 2, 2008 get naked -- Posted by deadsilence at 7:27 am on Nov. 2, 2008 stop goin to clubs -- Posted by r o c 2 at 7:27 am on Nov. 2, 2008 "paton and weed"   but some clubs put you out/call police if you smoke that in the club soo be careful........ -- Posted by prettyperfect at 7:28 am on Nov. 2, 2008 just be like "I DINT GIVE A SHIT OF WHAT YOU THINK" and there prob jelous so fuck them assholes -- Posted by RIMHfire at 7:29 am on Nov. 2, 2008 Get drunk. That solves everything. -- Posted by EmilyTheStrange at 7:30 am on Nov. 2, 2008 Get a few drinks in you, and you'll be dancing. lol -- Posted by Natsy at 7:35 am on Nov. 2, 2008 alcohol the cause and solution to all of life's problems xx -- Posted by DirtyConspiracy at 7:40 am on Nov. 2, 2008 Stop caring about what people think. The best bet also is probably not to cure your shyness with alcohol, because you'd end up dependent on it and believe you can't be confident/have a good time without it. -- Posted by fairylights at 7:46 am on Nov. 2, 2008 Just forget everybody else is watching and let go and believe in yourself! I'm pretty sure there is a great dancer in you and I'm almost positive there will be people who dance alot worse than you, so you dont need to listen to their comments! Just look around the club at people and see that there not all great dancers, but they are having fun. If they can so can you. Best of luck :) -- Posted by jujube at 10:14 am on Nov. 2, 2008 Try to have more "you" moments. Maybe that'll work. Like if you get to the point where you know yourself well enough, no one will be able to bring you down cause you know who you are and you know your flaws, you wont be scared to laugh at yourself! :) -- Posted by womendontlikeme at 10:18 am on Nov. 2, 2008 They only way you can ever be confident is by believeing that you are... If you keep telling yourself that you have no confidence.... then you wont have any.... its that simple.