-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:32 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 Okay, I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. We're both ready for it. I'm not a virgin, but this will be my first time having sex while in a relationship. What are things that should be discussed before doing the deed? -- Posted by iBritt at 4:34 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 I would ask him to get tested before you have sex with him, just to be careful.   Talk about any precautions that you and your boyfriend are taking to prevent any unwanted pregnancies, and please, discuss what will happen if you become pregnant.  Say about your likes and dislikes as well. -- Posted by Anonymous at 4:50 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 Quote: from iBritt at 7:34 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 I would ask him to get tested before you have sex with him, just to be careful. Talk about any precautions that you and your boyfriend are taking to prevent any unwanted pregnancies, and please, discuss what will happen if you become pregnant. Say about your likes and dislikes as well. I forgot to mention that he is a virgin. -- Posted by iBritt at 4:56 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 How does that change anything? -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:00 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 Quote: from iBritt at 7:56 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 How does that change anything? Should he still get tested? -- Posted by iBritt at 5:01 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 I would ask him anyway, but that's just me. I'm skeptical like that. Better yet, if you really really trust him, then don't ask him that.  Unless he asks you, since you're not a virgin. -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:08 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 Quote: from iBritt at 8:01 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 I would ask him anyway, but that's just me. I'm skeptical like that. Better yet, if you really really trust him, then don't ask him that. Unless he asks you, since you're not a virgin. I really do trust him. He's actually gotten himself in big trouble with his parents because he couldn't lie to them about being with me. It's really sad, actually.