-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:18 am on Nov. 3, 2008 We had it planned for a MONTH that he would visit me this weekend...and now he's saying he can't.  He says it's gas, but I fucking offered him money likes 50 freaking times...and now he's saying that he'd already said he'd help move one of his friends this weekend anyway. FUCKING WHAT??!?!?!!? Fuck, this was supposed to be your weekend with ME.  He said he's make it up the following weekend...if he can....BUT STILL, we planned this so long ago, and you're helping your friend was just planned last night I bet.               I'm going back to bed. -- Posted by blufindr at 7:20 am on Nov. 3, 2008 Don't talk to him and refuse to see him until he understands just what he's done wrong. If he doesn't want to see you, he should be straight-up honest about that. -- Posted by Mattie17 at 7:21 am on Nov. 3, 2008 oh shut up -- Posted by ladybughope at 7:29 am on Nov. 3, 2008 that sucks! when was the last time you sew him? -- Posted by jellybean09 at 7:30 am on Nov. 3, 2008 man. i dk. he may be cheating. that sounds similar to what happend to me with my first bf. -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:31 am on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from ladybughope at 9:29 am on Nov. 3, 2008 that sucks! when was the last time you sew him? A little this past weekend, but it was last minute and I had to change my plans a bit for it.  I also had already rearranged plans so I could spend time with him this upcoming weekend, completely dedicated it to him...now it's all shot. Why is it I can always manage to work everything in, but HE can't???  Even when we have weeks planning in advance???  I know he loves me, but FUCK, I wish he'd try harder.... -- Posted by metalhealthpatient at 7:35 am on Nov. 3, 2008 get over it quit your bitching -- Posted by MadeUpMyMind2507 at 7:39 am on Nov. 3, 2008 honestly..he doesnt wanna be with you .if he did he would move mountains to spend time with you-he can help his friend load the truck and then say i gotta go for now ..or he could bring you along, not the best date but hey you are spending time together..and if you offered him money and he still didnt come and just came up with another reason not to come then he doesnt want to be there at all sweet heart.