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-- Posted by Liberty or Death at 2:14 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

Would you take back someone who cheated on you


-- Posted by kupal vibes at 2:15 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

i find it hard to trust again


-- Posted by rorybadazz at 2:15 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

fuck no


-- Posted by Renea1993 at 2:15 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

Absolutely not, once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater.


-- Posted by CheyBear at 2:16 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

Never.


-- Posted by thinkexist at 2:16 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

Maybe. It would depend on the situation; why he did it, how sorry he was, how he was making it up to me, etc. I'd like to believe that if we were truly in love that I'd be able to forgive him.


-- Posted by taraxgoesxboom at 2:17 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

It would really depend on how much I loved them, if I thought there was something missing from our relationship that caused them to do it, if I really believed they'd never do it again and if they had come to me with the truth or if I found out on my own.

Pretty much, unless it's someone I was married to and really loved they'd have no chance of even speaking to me again.


-- Posted by 300 at 2:17 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

no never


-- Posted by SmartWater at 2:17 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

maybe.


-- Posted by lucyloo at 2:20 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

Neverr.


-- Posted by palepalepeach at 2:20 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

I might if I loved him, but it would be difficult either way.


-- Posted by beingme at 2:22 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

No, because he is showing you that your absolutely nothing to him, he did go with another girl, so you feel like your worthless, so why go back with someone who makes you feel like shit. Even if he did try to make it up, and explain to you everything, and told you why he did it and ect, ect, I would still not go back because he might do it again later in the relationship. You never know.


-- Posted by YeahBoii at 2:24 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

Never.  They made the choice to put your relationship at risk and disregard your feelings.

Plus by cheating they're basically saying what you're giving is not good enough so they're looking to get it from someone else.


-- Posted by switchfoot52 at 2:27 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

depends on how severe the cheating was but probaboly not. my friends bf has cheated on her several times and she takes him back everytime


-- Posted by EyeoftheBeholder at 10:52 am on Nov. 6, 2008

I stayed with my girlfriend. She cheated early on in our relationship. She apologized and I could tell it was genuine. We talked about it and decided to move on from it. She realized it was a mistake and promised to never do it again.


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