-- Posted by linni pop at 4:01 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 i've only ever been with one guy so far, and it was someone i truly loved. i have a new boyfriend now, and i want to sleep with him, i think. the only reason i don't want to is because i'm worried that if i have sex with him and then we break up that i will just get another boyfriend and have sex with him, thus beginning a never ending cycle of slut. which i do not want to happen. i really like this new guy, we've been together for a few weeks short of 2 months, and things are going really great. i'm just at a loss of what to do... -- Posted by Baron Samedi at 4:02 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Just do it. -- Posted by Natsy at 4:03 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 so in other words a month and 2 weeks? -- Posted by Special Agent Orange at 4:04 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 just pull your pants down and get ready for the ride of a lifetime. -- Posted by babypink 1012 at 4:04 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 you think? no don't. If you think your ready your not, if you KNOW your ready then go ahead, wait longer. -- Posted by TomNsR at 4:04 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Just do it already if you want to. -- Posted by Imessedup2 at 4:05 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Newsflash: You're going to break up with boyfriends many times in your life, and most likely you're going to go on to have sex with the future boyfriends. If you don't want to do it, don't do it; but, your reasoning is a bit nonsensical. -- Posted by ohhithere at 4:05 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 You're seriously asking us? If you want to, and you can take proper precautions, then go for it...if you don't feel it's right, then don't. Simple as that. -- Posted by Special Agent Orange at 4:09 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from Imessedup2 at 4:05 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Newsflash: You're going to break up with boyfriends many times in your life, and most likely you're going to go on to have sex with the future boyfriends. If you don't want to do it, don't do it; but, your reasoning is a bit nonsensical. true, and chances are your going to have sex with some of them. and just because you do that doesnt make you a slut (unless of course your dating a new guy every week). -- Posted by nik1 at 5:41 am on Nov. 4, 2008 I would suggest that you keep your legs together until you are sure he feels equally as emotional about you. -- Posted by child of rock n roll at 8:10 am on Nov. 6, 2008 Quote: from nik1 at 8:41 am on Nov. 4, 2008 I would suggest that you keep your legs together until you are sure he feels equally as emotional about you. This -- Posted by casesensitive30 at 5:33 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 it doesn't make you a slut, just make sure you like him. -- Posted by rabbitgirl at 10:53 am on Nov. 8, 2008 I should take my own advice, but "IF YOU HAVE TO ASK; DON'T". -- Posted by Roflcakes at 2:20 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 Yup that is the cycle usually, one after another.