-- Posted by Liberty or Death at 5:32 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Hi, I'm new here and I don't really know anyone but I could really use someone to talk to right now if someone could send me a message on here so we could talk. My girlfriend cheated on me and we  basically broke up after 1-1/2 yrs and  I am taking it REALLY hard. This is the first time this has ever happened to me and I am completely devastated and heart broken and I've been crying heavily, feel like I wanna die etc. Anyways if you'd like to chat plz message me. Thanx. By the way I'm a guy, 21 yrs old. -- Posted by studmuffn at 5:34 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 dude she cheated on you... forget that ho and go bang other chicks. theyre not worth it brah -- Posted by pittehwill at 5:40 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 :| Studmuffin, "brah"? Um, person with the emotional instability, you have to just ease yourself into the fact that you will have to get used to life without her, which I expect will be horribly difficult for you... It'll take time but then again most things do. -- Posted by MindFreak20 at 5:45 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 There's no words anybody could tell you that could make you feel any better about being cheated on. IMHO stop being a pussy and move on. -- Posted by coecold at 9:30 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 same just happened to me bro.. sucks more than anything man and MindFreak20 has obviously not been through any serious breakup if he's calling you a pussy -- Posted by EyeoftheBeholder at 10:57 am on Nov. 6, 2008 That really is terrible I'm so sorry to hear that. And I know this will sound hard but you just have to move on. There is someone better for you out there. And if you really loved this girl and it is meant to be then sometime down the road you may end up with each other again. So go out and have some fun with your friends. The worst thing you could do right now is mope around by yourself. I promise, things will get better.