-- Posted by twilightofyourlife at 5:25 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 My best friend is dating a COLLEGE freshman..that may not seem like a big deal, but she's FOURTEEN years old!! He's NINETEEN!! Last time I checked, that was ILLEGAL!! She doesn't realize how bad this could turn out. She is so naive. Her mom threatened both of them with a restraining order, yet she still sneaks around to see him. I have no idea what to do.  When me and my other friend tried to tell her we were worried, she LAUGHED at us! It pissed me off so much!!!! -- Posted by jsgirl at 5:26 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 It's only illegal if they fuck. -- Posted by Cherry Clouds at 5:26 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 Just leave her the fuck alone. It's her life, not yours. -- Posted by Kamalli at 5:26 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 Who are you to judge her? It's not your fucking life! gtf over it. -- Posted by Troop at 5:27 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 let her get but raped thatll teach her but hell u never kno this guy could be the greatest thing in the world and the minute she turns 18 they get married and live happily ever after u never kno -- Posted by twilightofyourlife at 5:30 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 Quote: from Kamalli at 7:26 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 Who are you to judge her? It's not your fucking life! gtf over it. i'm not judging her! why would i judge my best friend?? its the fact that anything could happen because this world sucks ass! he could be something bad for all we know. i'm just worried she'll get hurt, i mean, i don't want to lose her, y'know? something that bad might not happen, but nothing is impossible. -- Posted by tinnainparis at 5:31 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 dont listen to her my sis did the same thing and the guy cheated on her yet they went out for 6 years... she will get over it its a lil crush but i get were your comeing from with the point of her mom and the restraining order... -- Posted by Kay gurl at 5:36 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 well i had a bf that was 20 when i was 14 and we worked out fine but of course we knew each other for a long period of time like 4 years -- Posted by zombie4life at 5:42 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 Quote: from jsgirl at 8:26 pm on Nov. 6, 2008 It's only illegal if they fuck. this^^, don't be a cock blocker